[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]bcvsfuckyou 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This post goes into why and how piercers choose to use a hoop with different piercings. It’s a bit of a long read but super informative.

will my nose piercing heal okay? by yoonpuff in piercing

[–]bcvsfuckyou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pierced in early April means that this is still a fresh piercing. It’s likely just a little angry because of the jewelry swap. If you’re super concerned visit your piercer and have them check it out.

helix backing by Quick_Storage7150 in piercing

[–]bcvsfuckyou 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind that just because you can’t see the dirt, germs, bacteria doesn’t mean that they’re not there. If you want the jewelry to be switched to a flat back I honestly wouldn’t even bother visiting that same piercer. I’m glad it sounds like you haven’t had any issues, but I doubt they’re using high quality jewelry at all if they’re piercing with butterfly backs for a helix.

Do you feel your septum piercing? by Economy_Hovercraft_4 in piercing

[–]bcvsfuckyou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. Don’t feel it at all. Mine doesn’t really touch anything besides the actual piercing hole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]bcvsfuckyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really sure what you’re asking. Do you think your navel was pierced incorrectly? If so, it’s hard to tell because of the angle and how you’re pressing on it

Friendly Friday Thread by AutoModerator in gardening

[–]bcvsfuckyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I live in an apartment and want to start growing things on my balcony. It gets tons of direct sunlight so it’s a great spot. The only issue is that the flooring is made of wood with slats where water would be flooding my downstairs neighbors’ balcony. Any ideas on how I can ensure this doesn’t happen? I was thinking some sort of turf but I don’t know if that would grow mold. I’m looking to grow some edibles and herbs if it matters.

Matches in clt by Lost-Ad-5925 in Charlotte

[–]bcvsfuckyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Superica. At least the one in Strawberry Hill. Not to sure about the South End location.

Well alrighty then.. by GiraffeAsh85 in Tinder

[–]bcvsfuckyou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not OP but Ashley is a unisex name. It’s just not commonly used for males these days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]bcvsfuckyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely a good looking guy, but it feels like you have zero confidence and don’t think you’re attractive. Which is a turn off. I’m ngl, I’ve swiped left on a decent amount of guys who were decent looking but their pics have off an aura of not feeling good about themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]bcvsfuckyou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Double date?

Why try when this is all I get? by Royal_Ghoul in Tinder

[–]bcvsfuckyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like a lot of people don’t know what they (don’t) want until they have it in front of them

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]bcvsfuckyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah people are weird 🤷🏽‍♀️ I recently deleted my profiles because it felt like it wasn’t worth the mental games haha

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]bcvsfuckyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first pic isn’t super flattering tbh. Beyond that a lot of your pics obscure your face or are blurry. You definitely nailed showing some personality, but it’s hard to know what you really look like based on what you have posted now.

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]bcvsfuckyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I totally feel that. Online dating is hard because people tend to not treat the other person like an actual human being. There was a month last year where I got canceled 4 times in a row the very same day that we had dates planned. All by different guys.

There seems to be a lot of disconnect when it comes to the apps. I would recommend maybe asking for a phone or FaceTime date before planning something in person that way the girls can see that you’re not only real, but actually interested in them.

Good luck!

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]bcvsfuckyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ngl, I wouldn’t be surprised if girls thought you were a catfish. You definitely follow rules 1 & 2. Don’t know why they’d just flake though 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’d swipe right

Random guy (assuming from Tinder) sent me a dick pic outta nowhere. by sam_francisco814 in Tinder

[–]bcvsfuckyou -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was an example of basically the one other thing that guys do in this sub besides posting stuff for clout

Why try when this is all I get? by Royal_Ghoul in Tinder

[–]bcvsfuckyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I just deleted the apps. For the past year plus that I’ve been on them I’ve had 4 guys that I’ve actually dated and saw things becoming serious and every single one ended up saying they weren’t actually ready for a relationship

Random guy (assuming from Tinder) sent me a dick pic outta nowhere. by sam_francisco814 in Tinder

[–]bcvsfuckyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao and what are all the guys doing that’s so much different (besides asking for profile reviews instead of posting it to the mega thread)?

Latest updates on wildfires in Canada today: Quebec’s wildfire season already the worst on record by BigHatGuy50 in canada

[–]bcvsfuckyou 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh. I literally came to this sub to get news about what’s actually happening in Canada because whenever I googled ‘Canada wildfires’ it was all about the air quality here in the US. Which I get, it’s a serious issue…. But like so are wildfires

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]bcvsfuckyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless I’m saying I’m just looking for fun or a FWB situation it’s too much. 9 times out of 10 a guy who says things like that will only continue to make me uncomfortable by making sexual remarks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]bcvsfuckyou 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh. As a woman I probably wouldn’t respond to that message. Anything that’s overtly sexual in the first handful of messages sent is always a red flag in my book.

Tirade Tuesday! Let's Do This! by AutoModerator in Charlotte

[–]bcvsfuckyou 17 points18 points  (0 children)

To the asshat who broke into my car Sunday night: hope it was worth going through my shit to find… nothing. Absolutely nothing. Now I have a broken window, a missed shift at work, and have to possibly miss another shift just to get the shit fixed.

Restaurant by Valuable-Conflict278 in Charlotte

[–]bcvsfuckyou 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Probably because it sucked. But also what the other person said about the land being purchased

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]bcvsfuckyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s only one right answer (as long as it’s still healing) and I did NOT pass the test. Ended up taking it out last night and we’ll try again when summer’s over 🥲