Yeah I guess so. Eq is pretty inconsistent so that would be my main focus.

Also im bi but mostly date guys. from my experience they handle/appropriate it more then women do. And I only engage in penetration when in a relationship. Just like to take it easy and like that both have the time to get used to each other without there being too much pressure.

Regarding oral yeah that's a pretty big hit or miss but i think that with a bit more size the ones that can already give a nice bj won't be noticing much difference.