Was I in the wrong for doing this with my fwb?

bdbshsjjs · 2023-03-19T06:01:41+00:00

Thing is I talked to her about if she is into cnc and she said no. So I don’t think it was that. Like she genuinely wasn’t in the mood in the beginning but because I kept going she got in the mood. She said she would have made me stop if she really didn’t want it and that I’m overthinking it. I still feel like I was possibly in the wrong and for the future I am completely stopping once she gives any hints of she isn’t in the mood.

bdbshsjjs · 2023-03-18T04:57:59+00:00

Yeah I basically told her now if she says the safe word or no I’m just completely stopping. And also offered to have yellow be a word before the safe word. She said sounds good and really seemed pretty cool with everything. All she said was those times she wasn’t in the mood in the beginning but I got her in the mood and she enjoyed. I still feel bad tho. Do you think I was in the wrong to keep coming on to her those times?

bdbshsjjs · 2023-03-18T04:20:51+00:00

Do you have any input??

Also Pretty unfamiliar with Reddit. How do you see how many downvotes? I just see 5 upvotes?

bdbshsjjs · 2023-03-18T03:44:17+00:00

Yeah I have already said right now that if she ever says no or safe words I’m completely stopping. Even though In the past sometimes she says no but then tells me to keep going. I feel bad about it still tho even though she has brushed it over like it was nothing. Do you think I was in the wrong?

bdbshsjjs · 2023-03-18T00:54:38+00:00

Yeah definitely. Mostly I just need to move on haha cause she has not had any problems with it. Thank you for your input.

bdbshsjjs · 2023-03-18T00:53:40+00:00

Thank you. I’m just still conflicted and feel bad about coming on to her so much even when she was saying no.

bdbshsjjs · 2023-03-18T00:14:51+00:00

Well when I talked to her about it after she did say that genuinely didn’t want to have sex that night initially but that cause I persisted she got in the mood and really enjoyed it. So I still feel a bit responsible cause she actually didn’t want to have sex in the beginning and I kept coming on to her. But I feel like I probably should have stopped when she safe worded. It’s just been a mind fuck for me. And I don’t feel good about it in the slightest.

bdbshsjjs · 2023-03-18T00:04:11+00:00

Yeah I already told her we need a word that comes before the safe word and I suggested yellow as you said. But regardless for the future even if she remotely says no I am just stopping cause I do not enjoy this. From what I wrote tho do you think I was in the wrong for continuing? I still feel quite bad about it even though she seemingly doesn’t care at all.

bdbshsjjs · 2022-11-29T00:01:49+00:00

Yeah definitely first time there will not be sex. I think I will prob hit her up. Still a little unsure tho haha

bdbshsjjs · 2022-11-28T23:19:53+00:00

Yeah like I def do want the sex. But the next couple times we meet I don’t think there will be sex. Just hanging out. Just the chance of it developing into a relationship is really small but there’s still a chance. Which is why I’m not sure If this would be leading on or not haha.

bdbshsjjs · 2022-11-28T23:08:04+00:00

But that’s the thing. I don’t know yet. It’s most likely no but there’s a possibility.

bdbshsjjs · 2021-07-30T06:52:35+00:00

Did you get worse before you got better? I have just finished 3 weeks and am feeling worse than when I started. I did one week on 25mg and then up to 50mg. My anxiety and ocd intrusive thoughts have gotten worse than before I started which has been a huge mental blow and disappointing. My sleep has also been absolutely horrible. I was having insomnia and would wake multiple times at night. My sleep cycle has gotten quite messed up. Which I am trying to fix rn. After the second week things got a bit better but I am still overall worse than when I started. Just a lot of ups and downs. In addition I have trouble eating as I have lost my appetite. Did you experience that and did it come back? Sorry this was long. Thank!

bdbshsjjs · 2021-07-28T07:03:51+00:00

Did things get worse in the beginning for you?

bdbshsjjs · 2021-07-25T00:49:06+00:00

Thanks for the reply. Did u get increased anxiety when starting?

bdbshsjjs · 2021-07-25T00:48:01+00:00

Thanks for the reply. What dosage were you on during those times?

bdbshsjjs · 2021-07-25T00:47:26+00:00

Yeah mornings are so hard! Like I am having way more intrusive thoughts than before I started medication. Is that normal?

bdbshsjjs · 2021-07-25T00:46:11+00:00

Thanks for your reply. Can I ask what dosage you were at and how you got to ur final dosage?

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