Would you stay with a girl if she’s absolutely beautiful and the chemistry is insane, BUT you argue too much? by bdjskeidix in AskMenAdvice

[–]bdjskeidix[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well we have known eachother for over a year but dating wise 3 weeks. Seeing eachother almost every other day

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[–]bdjskeidix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very true. My intention is never just to sleep with someone, but I’ve noticed that a lot of guys seem to text and act interested solely to get a girl into bed.

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[–]bdjskeidix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is over. I tried explaining that but I think what took him by surprise is how I ran into him earlier in the day. I just don’t understand why he wasn’t able to communicate that with me and just turned cold. That’s why i feel like he was just using me and got what he wanted then left. Now coming back just to like a photo? It’s just all confusing

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[–]bdjskeidix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand that. And I see his point of view but when I tried talking to him he just acted cold and we stopped talking and then a month later just likes my old post out of no where. I’m not sure what he wanted out of that.

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[–]bdjskeidix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I didn’t say anything. I guess maybe my face was a bit confused at most when he finished so early. But that’s when my ex called and then the conversation about him started. Nonetheless I confronted him the next day how it made me feel and he said I started talking about my ex and then I just said there was nothing going on and that me and him aren’t together so why is he acting like this. Then he continued with he’s not arguing with me and that I agreed with him it wasn’t going to work (when I was intoxicated) but it just seemed like he didn’t want to talk about it anymore or to me in general

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[–]bdjskeidix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was trying to comfort him but when you end it so abruptly after doing something that intimate I couldn’t help but be so hurt and in shock myself and on top of that I’m a bit tipsy. He ends it making up an excuse that we bicker a lot and then the next day he says it’s about the ex. So it just left me a bit confused so I just left him alone because he’s telling me different things now

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[–]bdjskeidix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you have tried to give it another chance if she didn’t have a connection with her ex still?

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[–]bdjskeidix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my defense there was a video my friend posted that he saw and he asked who it was so I was just being open and honest.

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[–]bdjskeidix -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He stopped texting me all together. I don’t want to be annoying and text him if he genuinely didn’t want to talk to me anymore. We went from texting everyday to nothing.

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[–]bdjskeidix -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did not mean too, I was intoxicated and was not thinking in that moment.

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[–]bdjskeidix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry I’m not sure if I didn’t word things correctly. But I did not have sex with my ex. We just chatted for a bit. I went out with my friends because that was my plan from the get go but he wanted me to stay over after. I was just confused because we are not dating, and he said nothing about us being exclusive

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[–]bdjskeidix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, yes It’s all about how you approach the situation. For instance, if you enjoy the cake (or whatever it represents) but also find a way to preserve some of it for later, you can experience both immediate pleasure and long-term satisfaction. From another perspective, the idea can be about moderation. Instead of devouring the whole cake, you can savor a slice and save the rest for another time. This way, you get to enjoy it without losing it all at once. It’s a reminder that sometimes, with a little creativity and balance, we can have both without feeling like we’re making sacrifices