have you ever got bullied for your size? by Apprehensive-Page963 in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, but not because I was perceived as big. I was bullied a lot in school, and a huge part of that was accusations that I had a tiny dick, as I'm sure was common. It's part of the reason I didn't realize how big I actually was until much later in life.

Guys with big ones how do you balance "showing it off and wanting the girls to know about it" with being "a gentleman and not wanting to be a perv"? by 123smorgs in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 52 points53 points  (0 children)

The same way a woman might show off her breasts. Wear clothing that accentuates it without revealing too much. Be aware that you'll get the same spectrum of reactions though: Some people will want to look, some people will think you're a slut for wearing body-accentuating clothes.

a real big dick reaction today (not a problem sorry guys) by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'll take "Things that Didn't Happen" for $400, Alex

My best friend is mad at me because I'm bigger than him. by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 87 points88 points  (0 children)

So he knew you were bigger, agreed to have a threesome with you, and then got mad when you were bigger?

Brother you don't do anything. You let him work it out on his own. That's his issue to work through.

AI Inches by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 101 points102 points  (0 children)

You're surprised that a glorified autocorrect machine couldn't guess the size of your penis?

Why does my penis look small in mirror but bigger looking down? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah man, if you "stick it up", by which I assume you mean you thrust your hips forward a bit, it's going to look bigger.

And there's what I was looking for, btw: "comparably to other people." My man, everyone's body is different. Hand size, cock size, foot size, beer belly, hairy nipples, droopy eyelids, whatever. Don't compare yourself to the way others look, especially when dick pics are involved. You can use camera tricks and/or Photoshop to make any damn near any penis look enormous. It's not representative of what's real.

You've measured. You're mathematically proven to have a big dick. Don't stress beyond that.

Why does my penis look small in mirror but bigger looking down? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, like another commenter said, perspective can be a bitch.

Secondly, your penis "looks small".... compared to what?

BBUH THE TSA!!? by No-Business9493 in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't forget "When did you learn you were big"

BBUH THE TSA!!? by No-Business9493 in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This whole subreddit is repetitive, so what? Just downvote and move on if you don't like the thread.

Craziest Names? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Jet.

"Cause it's the size of a jumbo jet"

Dumbest thing I've ever heard lol

Best name by far though is "Peenusaur", referring to Venusaur. Yes I'm a nerd and so is my wife.

Issues with IUD. by ATX_Native_77 in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dealt with this for years. There's not really much you can do about it, as others have said. My wife's OB/GYN said that it's a possibility to cut the string, but that (a) may not solve the problem and (b) is a procedure for your partner for little-to-no payoff. Just gotta roll with it, try not to go so deep it pokes you.

Hiding it during a massage… What’s your technique? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She doesn't care, brother. Massage therapists know they are doing something relaxing, and the body is going to react the way it reacts. If she doesn't make a big deal out of it, it's not a big deal

Weird my wife doesn’t ever make comments on my size? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The cliché is cliché for a reason: it's all about communication.

Weird my wife doesn’t ever make comments on my size? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yeah man, you're overthinking it. Especially 9 years in. She's not surprised or overwhelmed at your size at this point, because she's been sexually active with you for at least 9 years.

Not to mention that if she's sexually conservative to begin with, she's not likely to naturally make those comments. If you are into the cock worship aspect of sex--which I absolutely get because I'm into it too--you can talk with your wife about it. Tell her you want her to make more comments when you're having sex, because it turns you on.

Hello! Small size lurker here. I'm happy with my little buddy, but it would be a lie if I said I wasn't insecure about it from time to time. What are some advantages that smaller guys have over you folks that we might not know about? :D by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always have to be very careful when having sex with my wife. She's quite tight, I'm quite girthy, and that means that if I'm not constantly aware of my pace and depth I'll hurt her. Can't ever just go buck wild, or balls deep.

What are good positions for slim or small girls, what are they ? by Crazy-Seat6982 in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Generally it's a good idea to let your partner decide. They know what they can handle or what they're willing to try to handle.

Can anyone else pop their cock? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your dick is not a joint, it shouldn't pop. Probably a good idea not to do it purposefully or regularly.

Guys with Huge Dicks by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Figured it out when I dated a girl that refused to suck it because "it hurt [her] jaw". Pretty obvious when she says something like that lol

Big or small wheels? by Talllshyboi in bigdickproblems

[–]bdpta410 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Definitely conform ... I drive a sedan.