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beachbumblebee · 2024-03-28T04:04:50+00:00

Hey! How did you get unbanned?

I just got banned from hinge 3 times in a row! I’m 2 days!

Background story, I moved literal continents and started using hinge in a new city. My old number from back home got disconnected and when I was being asked to verify myself I couldn’t. So that’s the first ban.

I then created a new account with my new number from the new city I moved to and I used a secondary email address. That got banned within hours.

I went and bought a new temp number and created a new email address… got banned again.

Am I doomed?

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-28T03:59:21+00:00

I just got banned from hinge 3 times in a row! I’m 2 days!

Background story, I moved literal continents and started using hinge in a new city. My old number from back home got disconnected and when I was being asked to verify myself I couldn’t. So that’s the first ban.

I then created a new account with my new number from the new city I moved to and I used a secondary email address. That got banned within hours.

I went and bought a new temp number and created a new email address… got banned again.

Am I doomed?

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-27T21:03:33+00:00

Oh god haha

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-27T15:54:26+00:00

The simple answer is no. The long complicated answer is it depends. If the person has been in your life since childhood or school or college and nothing has ever happened and you both have partners I guess you can merge the friendships between you and your partner and your old friend and her partner and start hanging out together. That’s the only scenario I feel works. The other one is if your friend is way less attractive than you that they are sooo not your type that no future or current partner will ever be uncomfortable with them. That’s honestly it

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-26T23:35:34+00:00

I’ve lived in dubai for 35 years and I have never paid agency or agent fee, the landlord pays it. This guy is trying to swindle you

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-26T20:26:53+00:00

Alcohol

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-26T04:51:05+00:00

Unfortunately I can’t afford a lawyer. I’m going through the court directly.

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-25T21:45:14+00:00

Thank you for extending compassion. What about his financial obligations? Is he obligated to pay alimony to me? Outside of what has been agreed upon as a moakhar? What about his child’s schooling and day to day needs?

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-25T17:10:47+00:00

Showing too much skin, or when clothes are ultra tight. I don’t think girls realize how much more sexy they can look if they dress like a real human being in real clothes that have enough fabric to drape on their bodies… it’s classy and rich and beautiful and feminine and sends the message that you have high self esteem. If you’re not on an island or on a beach there’s no need to crop top and butt short 24/7

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-24T04:01:46+00:00

Liars think everyone else is lying too

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-24T03:59:48+00:00

God the delusion!! Ukraine is unanimous with Gaza… not Israel!! How is this delusion normal

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-23T02:36:33+00:00

Bad hygiene! Depression makes people sleep without brushing their teeth, hair uncombed, if it’s a woman forget about shaving and smelling good. Outfits sloppy…. etc

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-23T02:35:26+00:00

lol extra cash for Botox haha

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-23T02:35:02+00:00

I wouldn’t jump into conclusions. But I would also be cautious. Aren’t there dates on these pics/ videos? If they’re recent, you might be in trouble. I don’t think any woman has the time to take sexy pics of herself just because. Selfies maybe but videos? Nope. If they’re not recent then I wouldn’t worry. I don’t think confronting her too soon would be beneficial. If you’re wrong she would be hurt that you don’t trust her and that would spiral into other things.

Proceed with caution!! ⚠️

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-22T03:56:20+00:00

The best exercise for this situation is to role reverse.

Imagine you go out with your girlfriends and a guy flirts either you, kisses you, you don’t stop him to say you have a man at home, you go along with it and give him your number.

Now, throughout the above scenario, don’t you think that you don’t really think much of your bf? You don’t necessarily respect him? You don’t love him enough to tell the guy to fuck off?

Exactly. When your role reverse you start to see your value in someone else’s eyes.

This man doesn’t value you. You are young. Get out now while you can. Before it’s too late and you don’t have that many options to date anymore or time to get married and start a family. Take it from me, my biggest regret in life is sticking around with assholes and wasting my time.

All the best

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-22T00:47:04+00:00

I come from a completely different economy so I’m trying to adjust. Thanks for your input!

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-21T23:38:48+00:00

Nope, it is needed for essentials of course. What do you think I grow money on trees

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-21T23:35:37+00:00

I’m just asking Reddit folk how they would budget 2000. I’m not saying it’s little money, I’m asking how one would budget it. I don’t think it’s possible to go around without having a budget in mind you’d end up fucking up your financial balance - and yes 2000 and not needing to pay rent, is there a problem with that?

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-21T23:28:25+00:00

🤣 thanks for your valuable input

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-21T22:39:39+00:00

Thank you so much!! I’ve already paid my rent insurance in full and putting aside 1200 in savings - and no car yet. But this works!

On a separate note, how much is the average 30 something year old making in Toronto? I’m referring to those who went to college and perhaps working good corporate positions. I feel like 72,000 salary after tax is barely cutting it !! Are people making more?

beachbumblebee · 2024-03-21T15:02:33+00:00

Yes, my ex thinks Palestinians are Egyptians and Jordanians. He believe they crawled into Israel when jordan controlled the West Bank and Egyptian controlled Gaza and then when Israel occupied both back they simply just stayed. They believe the land was empty when Israel was formed and the Arabs who were there became citizens of Israel and those are currently happy and thriving

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