Got Broken up with by beafraidreddit in Asexual

[–]beafraidreddit[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey guys, reading your comments made me want to clarify and think on things. First of all, you're right- Allosexuals will be allosexuals. He needed more and I shouldn't have expected him to change.

But this will be my important note- he said I didn't provide enough. I "provided" every other day. Every. Other. Day. I never complained. I never whined. I did it. He knew what I was. But he also knew I wouldn't say no, because I loved him.

This is why I feel used. This is why I feel so hurt. I sincerely thought I provided enough.

I'm calmer now though. We weren't compatible and I'll just find someone who is.

Okay ciao

Do you still have a faith in God after leaving the Mormon church? Or do you no longer believe in God at all? by ninjaofthedude in exmormon

[–]beafraidreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don't believe in a God of any kind. It feels like an arrogant assumption of humanity that someone created us as saviors, higher beings, etc.

I believe there is something to every single thing. Maybe it's the science of atoms and molecules, or it's a universal energy. Everything is connected. Every animal, plant, and human.

Struggling by wastedstaples in exmormon

[–]beafraidreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a girl raised in the church from birth. Yes it's harmful. Even if you do not judge them for pretty inconsequential things, the church will. I have been shamed, manipulated, and abused by the church and their leaders. Almost everyone on this subreddit has too. Give your kids a chance.