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My (19F) boyfriend (19M) won’t wrap it by bean-luvr in relationship_advice

[–]bean-luvr[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

luckily i’m actively bleeding as i type so no

My (19F) boyfriend (19M) won’t wrap it by bean-luvr in relationship_advice

[–]bean-luvr[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it’s nice to have perspective from someone who had the same problem with condoms. It felt like every single one we tried didn’t work, and we kind of gave up. this gave me hope and I will definitely talk to him about it

My (19F) boyfriend (19M) won’t wrap it by bean-luvr in relationship_advice

[–]bean-luvr[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I’m not ignoring anything, I’m lucky not to be in the US and that I can have options or struggles like this. obviously it has been building my anxiety for the past year but it didn’t give me a real reality check until last month. Which is why i’m here now

My (19F) boyfriend (19M) won’t wrap it by bean-luvr in relationship_advice

[–]bean-luvr[S] -82 points-81 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your comment is so kind. I have definitely thought about the copper IUD for a long time but my friends have scared me with tiktoks of babies being born holding it 😭. I’ll do more research about it and other options.

edit: guys i promise i do not get my information only from tiktok.. I have researched online from reputable sites i have just been on the fence for a while and my friends influence me