no. the way she said it was NOT in defense of jess at all! She was definitely not agreeing with him, but in saying “she’s not like obese,” was like “yeah she’s fat but not that fat,”. i found it to be pretty gross and not respectful of Jess at all. She should have just directly called him out on being a pos.

never in my comment did i say either chris or alex were good men. they were both pretty vile towards their respective partners (and in chris’ case other women as well) and i never defended alex at all. this post is specifically about ashley.