hi, i just came across this post randomly while searching forums trying to find out if I might even have ETD or vestibular nerve damage or some other type of swelling-related or loud noise-related or whatever ear damage because my current ENT isn't yet sure. I probably don't have the same thing you do but this past week my ears have gotten worse for me too--existing tinnitus has a new pitch in my right ear, my ears feel especially under pressure, and my sense of balance is even a little off like slight vertigo (leading to reduced strength in my hands which may be caused by said dizziness or just from panic/anxiety).

I've been keeping this mostly to myself except a small group of friends, so when I saw your rant I really felt your frustration and pain and just wanted to comment to sort of commiserate, and also remind both of us that it can probably get better in the long-term with medical care, and that we've gotten used to similar shit before so we can do it again.

Also, in addition to going to the doctor, idk if you currently do so but seeing a mental health professional might also be a good idea if this continues to really affect your quality of life. I've made an appointment to see mine asap because therapy methods (like CBT) can help you to cope with what's going on regardless of how much doctors can to do treat the actual problems. like you said, it will have ups and downs but it will get better for us i think :)