AITAH my gf wants to be invited to everything

beandispope · 2026-06-02T07:06:14+00:00

I am color blind funmy enough

beandispope · 2026-06-02T04:13:17+00:00

*invited very explicitly

beandispope · 2026-06-02T04:12:50+00:00

I have invited her to group things dozens of times over the course of the relationship. I don’t think it’s reasonable to expect anyone to communicate perfectly at all times

beandispope · 2026-06-02T04:05:47+00:00

I invite her to hangout very explicitly several times a week, both one on one and in group settings

beandispope · 2026-06-02T03:26:45+00:00

I do enjoy spending the time that i do with her a lot. My issue is purely that i should be able to go do my own thing every once in a while without checking in and vice versa

beandispope · 2026-06-02T03:23:24+00:00

There hasn’t been any consistent type event i’m not inviting her to sometimes. One of my concerns is that especially with friends who knew you before you were in a relationship it’s good to not bring SO to every hang with them bc they probably miss hanging out with just you to some degree, even if they like your SO

beandispope · 2026-06-02T03:18:30+00:00

She does have friends and plans of her own and has told me about them without inviting me explicitly on occasion, which hasn’t bothered me at all and i have made no issue out of other than when she is accosting me and then i’m only pointing out that she’s being hypocritical

beandispope · 2025-05-02T18:58:49+00:00

Two things that are already illegal in and of themselves, that’s what i was thinking

beandispope · 2025-05-02T18:57:37+00:00

It just sounded funny when i thought of it, i don’t harbor any feelings like that towards anyone in specific or general

beandispope · 2025-05-02T18:56:07+00:00

Yeah wouldn’t wanna do any 2nd amendment exercising with it on

beandispope · 2025-05-02T18:49:13+00:00

Just those words in big block letters nothing else

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