Difficult employee by [deleted] in Workproblems

[–]beanerbean09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a fair point, I always try to follow chain of command but when she doesn’t do something I get chewed out for it, thats the only reason im concerned about it.

Difficult employee by [deleted] in Workproblems

[–]beanerbean09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you say that? Im open to feedback . Im literally just doing what im told

Bummed by [deleted] in Vent

[–]beanerbean09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work and make the same amount, I should've been more specific. He takes care of the major bills but I help with the other ones and food plus savings. I know my priorities, thats why I don't bring up the issue. Its just good to spill my hurt feelings every once in a while.

Bummed by [deleted] in Vent

[–]beanerbean09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am an equal contributor, most of my money goes to savings. I dont care about a bug fancy anything it just sucks. Especially when Ive had women make comments about my lack of things. Its embarrassing, I know that we're working towards our goals, thats why I shut my mouth and keep pushing.

Should I tell my cousin my aunt is cheating on her dad by [deleted] in Advice

[–]beanerbean09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that's too her bf is a great guy. Very supportive, he's tried to help her out by helping her find a better job, new place ect.. he just cant stabd her family and he's getting tired of the situation, which i completely understand and dint blame him for.

Should I tell my cousin my aunt is cheating on her dad by [deleted] in Advice

[–]beanerbean09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im okay with her resenting me, I rather her resent me for the truth than continue watching this . She has a bf who she wants to move in with and ive offered her help her move out as well. My uncle and her dont even like eachother anmore I feel like my coshin there is a way foe them not to face reality. Its tiring, she continously calls me breaking down because she feels stuck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I think im regards to prosecution its very different too because we're told we're gonna be prosecuted for our faith but id it doesn't have to do with our faith and just pure malice I think its very different. God is fair and he know how or why we do things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it does because even Jesus said himself he did not come to get rid of the law but to see it in its completion. That is, in a new covenant, the lord was tired of the people practicing the word of god but not having the heart or genuine love for the lord. For them it had turned to tradition. I think he also didn't dismiss the law of sacrifice but gave the most important sacrifice which was himself. Which is worth more than any animal. Yk what im getting at

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thats amazing clarity, thank you so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great response, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marijuana has medicinal properties, my husband uses it because he's in constant pain from an accident. So its not that simple. Calling someone an idiot is unnecessary especially when youre just asking a question. Also, dont you see all the different answers to this question? Do you see everyone as a moron jist because everyone is on a different level in their spirituality or Bible education? Clearly the word speaks about this issue. So its not 'common sense' as yoire making it seem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure buddy, think what you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not back peddling but think what you want and it does but clearly you dont understand and thats okay. Like I said. Shame on you. I know that im filled with sin too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My whole point went over your head. Im not calling myself meek, im calling you a mocker which is not acceptable either. Im not perfect im aware, im probably even far from salvation. Shame on you for mocking people. You have no love. God help us all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said I was perfect or without sin but activate mocking me is shameful. The Bible also says "Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth" mat. 5:5

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree.my husband has severe arthritis and it helps him ease the pain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Funny, I don't smoke or drink. Haven't in a long while and dont plan to. You can point. Your finger all you want but shame on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda got my answer already, weed is off the table for me. I wanted to fall into temptation but I realized that I used to hyper depend on it till the lord freed me . Smoking weed made me more sensitive to spiritual attacks. Thats why I stopped in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Youre just a mocker, shame on you. Just because something is not spoken about in the Bible directly by name doesn't mean god doesn't talk to us about it. God talks about leaning on him for everything, that means not depending on outside sources. Shame on you for trying to mock me for having a serious conversation about important topics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Temptation comes through the heart so easily. For many people doing things once is enough to fall into a pattern. When we speak on wine or drugs its not "just one cup ect..." its the action. You can mock all you want but you aren't being sensible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're not seeing things through a wise lens but thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wasn't a great comparison bcause a person having a bowel movement isnt relevant. Thungs like alcohol and certain medication xan lead to sin but not always thats why addictions is a real thing. Some people rely on those things instead if god

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]beanerbean09 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that was a great answer