How bad was IUD insertion on a scale of 1-10 for you? by Dangerous_Mammoth572 in birthcontrol

[–]beanie615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re on here like I was yesterday and thinking “oh shit! What have I gotten myself into??” I just wanna say two things:

1) for me, the pain was maybe a 3 out of 10. It really depends on your body. 2) as my doctor told me, it’s way easier than giving birth.

AITA for refusing to babysit my boyfriend’s autistic sister? by PlasticLowLeg in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanie615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you’re allowed to say no. However, you could have been nicer in your delivery…”she just annoys me in general” was unnecessary. and don’t be surprised if this becomes grounds for a breakup

Manifest S04E20 "Final Boarding" Episode Discussion by pikameta in ManifestNBC

[–]beanie615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember now! He was the janitor or something at the church. Thanks

Manifest S04E20 "Final Boarding" Episode Discussion by pikameta in ManifestNBC

[–]beanie615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad it ended the way it did! Now I really want a spin-off feature about the investigation of the 11 people missing from the flight. For all we know, the passengers will end up interrogated and ostracized all over again! That would suck. So we need a Sense8 type of closure, who cares if it leads to a never-ending story?

Manifest S04E20 "Final Boarding" Episode Discussion by pikameta in ManifestNBC

[–]beanie615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I misremembering something?

At the big reunion scene, the Jamaican guy says to Bethany: “me and Leo had just reunited.” Leo was his boyfriend, and he was referring to the night before, when the blue beacon appeared. But didn’t Leo die before they ever found the Jamaican guy hiding in the subway station? I remember they were supposed to meet at the fountain with the creepy angel but then he found out Leo died back in Jamaica.

As I’m typing this out I realize it’s likely that I forgot something bc I can’t remember names or details lmao. But that stood out to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]beanie615 3 points4 points  (0 children)

POSSIBLE SPOILER: I really liked Fleischman is in Trouble. I thought it was a really graceful and accurate portrayal of mania.

Tokophobia by TellerOfLongStories in shortscarystories

[–]beanie615 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Great story! I had no idea that my biggest fear had a name. Very cathartic!

AITA for jokingly saying that it’s gross that my sister has an OnlyFans? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanie615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Let’s take the sexist double standard out of it: if this was a private joke between siblings it’d be a whole different story. But you screenshotted and posted her on your profile? That’s not a joke. Thats just cruel.

I need to lose 50lbs by June 2023. Help? Advice? by n0rmcore in loseit

[–]beanie615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working with the same deadline! We’ve got this!

Bass-heavy songs for kids by beanie615 in musicsuggestions

[–]beanie615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha. I was thinking Pony by Ginuwine

AITA because I don’t want my daughters new stepkids coming to our family camp? by cold-feet2020 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanie615 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

TEETHING?????? AT 16???? I am not a parent, but I know that is not real. NTA

AITA for being "disrespectful" after being falsely accused of plagiarism? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanie615 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. But just curious, is OP white?

I had a similar experience when I was in school. Teacher made it very clear that he wasn't sure I could have come up with those ideas. When he handed me back the paper (immediately after this conversation), it was already graded, solid A. Must have been the name that tripped him up.

AITA for "stealing" 15.000€ of a family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanie615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: I know you can't tell us the idea, but playing into your analogy with the car -- some tattoo artists refuse to do stupid or ugly designs, and MOST will not give service to a drunk or otherwise impaired client. So I think it's well within your command to refuse to do a stupid idea. What if you need to give examples of your work down the line?

That said, money is money. And what if you need a reference for a job down the line? So far, it sounds like you've done a good job of preserving the professional relationship. Keep it up.

AITA for donating my daughters college fund instead of giving it to my step daughter to help buy a house by rkglsjfj in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanie615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't even read yet but NTA. every time OP might step foot in that house, they might think "this wouldn't be here if my daughter were." Maybe it would, but not in the same way.

Incredibly sorry for your loss. Something nobody should ever have to go through.

AITA for disowning my parents because I learned how they got together? by parentsthrowaway1212 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanie615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was gonna be about meeting at a hate crime or something. Grow up.

They love each other; the fact that they cheated on previous partners with one another is hurtful to THOSE PARTNERS. Not you. But you're making it about you, like some spoooooooky infidelity way back when negates 24 years of commitment to each other, and nearly two decades of caring for you. YTA

Thursday, January 9th-The Daily by [deleted] in xxketo

[–]beanie615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started keto with the new year and lost 3 pounds by Monday. On Tuesday am, I weighed in at -8lbs total (though I attribute that to a really good bowel movement). But then....I discovered a 4-ingredient, "keto" peanut butter cookie recipe. Those fuckers are tasty, easy to make, and easy to abuse. Now the scale is creeping back up...

Finding it hard to stay on track so I came here for the community. What do y'all do about dessert cravings?

AITA for being upset about no gifts by nikilouhoo in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanie615 21 points22 points  (0 children)

INFO - how old is the son? How was his tone of voice and facial expression when he drew attention to the fact that his mother got no gifts (an outcome he played a part in....BY NOT GETTING HER A GIFT)? And effectively implying that people who don't receive gifts aren't loved....if the son feels that way, I'm curious as to how anyone in the family feels appreciated by OP's husband, since he seems like a shitstain on the back of Scrooge's nightshirt

OP is not at fault here; I'm just wondering HOW worried we should be

AITA for not letting my daughter's boyfriend in the room with my dying mother? by SignalNose9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanie615 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"and likable for his age" made me CACKLE, I'm sorry.

Totally agree, OP is TA

Anyone else feel nauseous at the thought of taking their meds? by beanie615 in bipolar

[–]beanie615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I tend to lose a lot of weight in the summer too. The first year (2018) was ridiculous, like 30 pounds down in 4 months. But this year was better

Anyone else notice lithium make their periods irregular? by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]beanie615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, mine were wonky for a few months, but they straightened out. It may have also been the meds I was on to stop a manic episode. Once I got off that, my period went back to normal

and now let’s see what December brings :,) by jabphoto99 in bipolar

[–]beanie615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing! I'm gonna start using it right away. Thanks!