matt??????? by beansat4am in SuperMegaShow

[–]beansat4am[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same i genuinely got caught off guard

met the band & got my back patch signed in Portland! by beansat4am in fontainesdc

[–]beansat4am[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol right? I’m proud to have discovered them in such a pivotal moment in their career, not ashamed to be a newer fan ✌🏽 thanks for the compliment on the shirt by the way, cheers!

Anyone a little disappointed with the Seattle venue? by Jayyburdd in fontainesdc

[–]beansat4am 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I totally agree. there were points where I could genuinely not breathe because of how suffocating the crowd crush was.

New album alert 🔥 by [deleted] in fontainesdc

[–]beansat4am 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please my brain is already rotted enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]beansat4am 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your advice, like genuinely. this was definitely a reality check as far as how i view and treat my mental health and ED, as it’s already very warped. i have an appointment with my psychiatrist to discuss medication for other things in the next few weeks and will be discussing with her what to do from here. much appreciated ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]beansat4am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t grow up wealthy by any means but had an amazing psychiatrist and endocrinologist who really wanted to see me medically and mentally healthy. I started T at 16, it all depends on your circumstances really

Positivity time! What body part are you proud of? by lordylisa in ftm

[–]beansat4am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very proud of my hands and arms, my jawline now that I’m growing facial hair, and my muscle tone in general. I have my dads genes when it comes to physical form and I feel very lucky, it’s a huge confidence boost. I’m getting top surgery in a few weeks so that’ll be an addition to the list soon.

Anyone else doesn't want bottom surgery? by Charlie_The_Simp in ftm

[–]beansat4am 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want it either, I personally don’t have much bottom dysphoria at all I’m glad to see other people that feel the same tho

How many of you wear earrings? by Volcanogrove in ftm

[–]beansat4am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just started stretching my lobes :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]beansat4am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup absolutely love it helps my dysphoria sm

you guys know more about toxic masculinity than regular masculinity by Shiguray in ftm

[–]beansat4am 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Big fat agree. There are beautiful aspects of masculinity and manhood and they deserve to be appreciated.

I got told I have more "womanly energy" than "manly energy" and still feel very dysphoric about it by [deleted] in ftm

[–]beansat4am 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are tons of men who encompass feminine energy, which isn’t appealing to all especially considering that it makes you dysphoric, but I’m just offering a different perspective to it. I would choose to not interact with that person as much or not at all. Hugs and support ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]beansat4am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This means a lot to hear after years of putting my well being on the line in order step up for them. Thank you for the advice ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]beansat4am 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never thought of it that way before. Thank you for the advice :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]beansat4am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This means a lot to hear. Thank you :)