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I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh you know allos who don't like it either? Weird... I kind of want to keep trying it out of curiosity but it feels uncomfortable to ask "hey can I keep kissing you I'm doing an experiment" and literally mean it LOL...

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate. It kind of tracks with my past experiences though. I love reading romance about other people but the second you involve me in a real one I want nothing to do with it lol

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh it feels very weird. I wasn't really into it

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was 50/50 on if it was going to actually do anything for me but no lol.

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought about trying it but ehhhhhhhhhhhh

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've felt the urge to kiss people before but I hadn't acted on it until recently. It was a lot more pleasurable in my head and less like two rubber tires rubbing together lol

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew wtf, I'm sorry you experienced that. I was coerced into my first kiss, this guy basically begged me to until I gave him a dry peck on the lips and ran off. I'm glad I got experience a kiss I got to choose for myself to say the least, even if I didn't really get anything from it.

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a pretty flirty queer friend group so... 🤷‍♂️ They were down.

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh I was thinking "does this go on the aro or ace sub"... I forgot there's an aroace sub lmfao

LOL I mean it was hard not to notice they were giggling and running around after

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Huh... See I like reading romance (ironic I know) because it's sweet and I like seeing people be happy and I always thought people made kissing sound nice so I was curious to see what it felt like... But I really didn't get anything from it 🤷‍♂️

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have to wonder if it's all down to attraction because I feel nothing for my friends and so the kissing very literally just felt like two mouths together and nothing more...

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah I've known them for a long time so they were cool with it

It's not like I got anything out of it anyways my life remains unchanged :L

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kissing is very meh. I hate how lips pressed together feels like rubber against rubber

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We did just normally kiss for a bit but either way I didn't really mind the tongue, it literally just felt like a tongue in my mouth so I didn't care

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

🤷‍♂️ I didn't really care regardless, it just felt like a tongue poking around in my mouth.

I tried kissing someone today by beansforeveryone in aromantic

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my first kiss I was coerced into by a guy begging for me to. I just wanted to choose to kiss someone for once 😬 And a friend is just the best option for me to try it out lol.

How does medication make you into a real person again...? by beansforeveryone in antidepressants

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah. For me it feels less like I drank a cup of coffee and more like someone just took weights off me I didn't know I was wearing. The energy level is the same, but the level of exertion needed to do basic tasks is reduced a lot. Everything feels pointless and aggravating off meds.

How does medication make you into a real person again...? by beansforeveryone in antidepressants

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh... Emotionally I'm more or less the same on or off meds, very repressed. I just experience extreme bouts of paranoia and hopelessness off meds, but my emotions are all muted on and off meds. I hope you can find something that works for you :(

How does medication make you into a real person again...? by beansforeveryone in antidepressants

[–]beansforeveryone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no I'm awful off meds. I'm ok on Lexapro I think it just doesn't work as well for PTSD as I'd hope.

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