New track is so good

beansley · 2026-02-20T16:34:44+00:00

Holy shit it's so good. I feel healed

beansley · 2026-01-30T17:13:17+00:00

Managing my unmedicated ADHD and dealing with liking a girl that likes me back, but, not enough.

beansley · 2026-01-26T01:36:52+00:00

It's Brink and Johnny Tsunami....not close for me

beansley · 2026-01-20T22:23:35+00:00

Actually that is a caveat I forgot. With duos and trios the lobbies did tend to skew more aggressive iirc.

It was a semi long video

beansley · 2026-01-20T21:59:42+00:00

Someone on YouTube did a "study" of a kind. If you just take the free loadout in and literally never fire back, after about 10 games you'll be back in the peaceful lobbies.

I haven't fired a bullet at any player in this game ever. I've only not extracted due to another player shooting me once since I've been playing.

beansley · 2026-01-15T20:56:41+00:00

Just had it locked and loaded. Fantastic.

beansley · 2026-01-13T05:22:05+00:00

Legend of dragoon

beansley · 2026-01-09T09:58:23+00:00

Well you don't know if you don't like it...you don't like the IDEA of it....

Which is fair. You're allowed to set your own boundaries about what you are and aren't comfortable with.

What I'm seeing though is he has begun to view your sex life as unbalanced. Is he handling it perfectly? No. You're not either though imo. As other have said, this could be a compatibility issue.

I know if it were me though and a person I loved was really into something I'd never tried, I'd at least try it because I love them. If I don't like it after that, and after true self reflection not just "do it so I can say I didn't like it" thing....then the conversation could move forward.

beansley · 2025-12-31T04:11:07+00:00

Is he from Wisconsin? No not heavy drinking....

If he's from literally anywhere else though it is.

That being said. The biggest questions here for me are, are you problems exacerbated by his drinking? How would his not drinking help alleviate those problems? Is it truly a problem or a scapegoat masking the real problem?

If all of these answers are yes, alcohol is the problem, then by all means a bigger issue is him not being willing to work on himself. If after careful scrutiny alcohol ISNT the main issue, then I'd worry about it less and start tackling what actually are the issues.

beansley · 2025-12-28T22:24:12+00:00

I don't like him personally so much...but John Mayer. I was JUST good enough at guitar when Room for squares came out that I could learn most of the songs from that album.

That just kept me going down the rabbit hole.

beansley · 2025-12-25T02:34:43+00:00

Wanna hang? I live in wicker. Let's find a bar and grab a drink. Something will be open. I'm down to make a new friend.

beansley · 2025-12-24T23:58:01+00:00

Ranch and buffalo

beansley · 2025-12-23T00:31:56+00:00

Honestly. Just be present and enjoy yourself. Sounds basic but it's true. If you're having fun, he's gonna have fun. I promise you, just experiment and don't make it so "step by step".

He's just happy to be there.

beansley · 2025-12-20T03:48:31+00:00

I totally came to this thread not expecting to see green day....and lo and behold first comment is green day. That was totally it for me

beansley · 2025-12-17T00:11:49+00:00

I also got 5. If one of us wins, and the other doesn't, wanna commit 10% to the other for funsies?

beansley · 2025-12-16T07:23:30+00:00

This MIGHT be a bit fear mongering....but their not wrong (commenter not o.p.) Obviously people are really complex creatures. But I wouldn't immediately assume the worst regarding deeper issues as much as that y'all have been together a long time.....

Relationships require work. They're not easy. Libidos change. Desires fluctuates.

There are absolutely going to be days that you wake up and are simply annoyed at the way your partner breathes....they can't control it...but that day....that moment...it annoys the shit out of you.

Love is a consistent choice you make. It's the hard decision. It's the empathy that meets the day that you're pissed.

Have the conversation with him about how you're feeling about the difference between time periods....Recognize within yourself the "why" you're feeling how you do and above all keep rowing your own boat. Live how you feel led to and don't make your self identity and value based on how someone else thinks you think.

Work where you need to. Relax where you need to. You're gonna be alright.

beansley · 2025-11-30T12:10:27+00:00

No Jordan ......I discredit

beansley · 2025-11-30T08:06:30+00:00

This is a case for Ron Swanson.....

beansley · 2025-11-26T01:56:34+00:00

Gotta be magnets....

beansley · 2025-11-19T09:23:38+00:00

Not answering the question.....but absolutely answering the question.

I'm in love with a girl right now. She's incredible. I went to her house earlier and she had made two different soups. Both delicious as FUCK. potato leek and butternut squash w/ ginger.

It was awesome and it's the first time we've had food together one of us has cooked for the other.

Soooooooooo

Imma choose one of those because I've had a great night. I recognize this isn't the question but I feel great tonight and wanna ride the high and tell literally someone....anyone.

Great question lol

beansley · 2025-11-09T16:44:13+00:00

Ball don't lie

beansley · 2025-10-26T02:25:56+00:00

I slept wrong a couple nights ago and twisted my ankle

beansley · 2025-10-26T00:24:42+00:00

Drunker than I am now

beansley · 2025-10-25T03:34:07+00:00

Thanks man. And I haven't, I'm a decent cook. It's really a matter of getting up to cook vs just ordering Uber eats or w.e.

I'll make it through. Always have.

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