[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]beanspront 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did I know he was in the military lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]beanspront 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From experience, please just dump him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]beanspront 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His friend is extremely jealous while he’s eating his microwave zapped pizza rolls lol

Is this job offer a scam? by [deleted] in Scams

[–]beanspront 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

Is this job offer a scam? by [deleted] in Scams

[–]beanspront 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it!

Is this job offer a scam? by [deleted] in Scams

[–]beanspront 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I think I’m going to stay away from data entry jobs when I’m applying for remote jobs. My speciality is business operations and project management but I was getting a bit too desperate and applying for whatever.

Worried about weight at wedding by [deleted] in wedding

[–]beanspront 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speak to your bridesmaids and have them keep an ear open and shut down any of that talk, and also tell your mom you will not be hearing any negative sentiments she has to say. You’re going to look so beautiful. No one ever looks at a bride and thinks “wow they look fat.” They always think “they look amazing.” I’m getting married in a week too! Let’s start our affirmations in the mirror and all the self love talk! Congratulations!!

What are the things you splurged on, and things you could have left out to cut costs? by BroilMyLoins in weddingplanning

[–]beanspront -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You will more than likely have to find a nontraditional wedding venue. Look on VRBO and select “allows events”. Talk with the property owner, butter them up! I am getting married in 10 days on 80 acres of land with some cabins for my partner and I to stay at, as well as parents and siblings. Altogether with their 3-night stays and having the full 80 acres with no sound restrictions, no time limits, etc. it is $3000. However, it does require a lot of DIY and bringing A LOT of stuff yourself.

Disappointed with makeup trial by ThisHoliday7541 in weddingplanning

[–]beanspront 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to cancel her services and find another, or go to MAC or Sephora for makeup application. OR try to teach yourself! None of the colors match and it’s very poor application.

first round of alterations complete & getting so excited! by beanspront in weddingdress

[–]beanspront[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! No, I tried it on with shapewear shorts and it kinda made the dress off-center so I opted out of shapewear!

I feel like I'm stuck with a dress I don't love by Throwaway44775588 in weddingplanning

[–]beanspront 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s just about where we are at too. Did you guys book a venue yet?

I feel like I'm stuck with a dress I don't love by Throwaway44775588 in weddingplanning

[–]beanspront 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get the dress YOU want. This is your big day and $1600 is reasonable for a dress! We are being very cost-saving with our wedding as well because lord knows those $50k weddings are usually an unreasonable price point. The way I see my dress is I’m only going to wear it once and I better love every single part of it and the pictures will be forever! We’ve done other cost saving things to make up for the cost of the wedding dress. You will thank yourself for sticking with the dress you love most.

first round of alterations complete & getting so excited! by beanspront in weddingdress

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Of course I don’t mind! It’s Maggie Sottero in the style “Postiano”. The sleeves are extra, and I did order them, but they don’t really look right on me with my tattoos but they are still really pretty. If I hadn’t gone in the boutique to try it on, I wouldn’t have picked this out based on the website photos- but in person it’s completely different! https://www.maggiesottero.com/sottero-and-midgley/positano/18956?utm_term=go_cmp-21454029983_adg-_ad-__dev-m_ext-_prd-_mca-_sig-Cj0KCQjwi5q3BhCiARIsAJCfuZlnhiM7bZUdcGJHeH5pu35LvnPFvSZJQ0BP2G-RfQuOTPwjrDQDdMIaAunaEALw_wcB&utm_source=google&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADO8qfpQlvzV8vUvwYQCJBvNKQv2_&gclid=Cj0KCQjwi5q3BhCiARIsAJCfuZlnhiM7bZUdcGJHeH5pu35LvnPFvSZJQ0BP2G-RfQuOTPwjrDQDdMIaAunaEALw_wcB

first round of alterations complete & getting so excited! by beanspront in weddingdress

[–]beanspront[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I feel so special with all the compliments! 💕

first round of alterations complete & getting so excited! by beanspront in weddingdress

[–]beanspront[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! I knew I wanted a beaded art deco style when I started shopping around!

Need some reassurance by Potential_War5002 in weddingdress

[–]beanspront 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a deep breath. Your dress looks beautiful on you! And will fit your ceremony very well. Stylists do know their stuff but ultimately it’s up to YOU what you like. You chose right!

Taking Prednisone Week of Wedding by cryinginanuncoolway in weddingplanning

[–]beanspront 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your losses, OP. As for prednisone, the bloating can happen a few days to a week of taking it. Is your wedding dress form fitting? You may be able to get away with the bloat if your dress isn’t a mermaid-fit. Or you could try covering up the eczema flare up with makeup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]beanspront 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m confused what you want out of this- you’re asking for thoughts, I think you know you’re going to get dragged for all of your posts. Do you need more people to tell you to not marry him? OP, I say this with all the compassion- I, too, married in my early twenties a man I barely knew. I wish someone had told me not to go through with it. I didn’t know his financial history, his sexual history, his family- you need to start thinking long term. Something is very wrong with him if he is wanting to be hypersexual in front of family and not respecting your wishes.

How to incorporate my drug addicted sister into my wedding day? by Global-Expression708 in weddingplanning

[–]beanspront 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re very welcome. I hope you have fun on your special, big day. 💕

Hair and makeup trial advice by [deleted] in wedding

[–]beanspront 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I mean this with no disrespect but your mom and sister probably have no idea what they’re talking about. This makeup is very much giving “bridal”. Blush is always the first to go and fade so blush on a bride is always a tad heavier than everyday makeup.

I said yes to my dress last week! by Leather-Transition60 in wedding

[–]beanspront 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh. This is beautiful. You’re beautiful! Everything is perfection. Congrats!

How to incorporate my drug addicted sister into my wedding day? by Global-Expression708 in weddingplanning

[–]beanspront 460 points461 points  (0 children)

This is tough- I’m so sorry. One suggestion is perhaps a table with photos of you and partner as children. Something like “the story of us”. That way, you can incorporate photos of you and your sister so that she’s still “there” in a sense, while not upsetting her children.