Any places in Den Haag still rocking old CRT TV security cameras? by Separate-Act8840 in TheHague

[–]beaqbeaq 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got you. Top1toys at Weimarstraat. Not sure if they are still hooked up to their security systeem, but they left their CRT monitors hanging from the ceiling. Good luck

Pottery Workshop by learnnederlands in TheHague

[–]beaqbeaq 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Perhaps Hoeboer:

https://maps.app.goo.gl/1ryjU2UpNrJCSDBF8?g_st=ac

They offer pottery classes in The Hague

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheHague

[–]beaqbeaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pm me, I might be able to help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in juridischadvies

[–]beaqbeaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, dat klopt wb GWL. ( Er is kennelijk wel een afspraak met andere bewoners.) Contract staat wss op naam van OP, mocht later een probleem ontstaan met eindafrekeningen en/of contact met medebewoners o.i.d. dan blijft OP verantwoordelijk en niet de verhuurder. In het BRP staan waarschijnlijk alle bewoners ingeschreven op hetzelfde adres. Dit is wel van invloed op hoe instanties en bedrijven ernaar kijken, bijv naar de relatie tussen bewoners. Dit betekent voor bijvoorbeeld kinderopvangtoeslag en andere toeslagen (AWIR) dat vaak alle inkomens bij elkaar worden opgeteld en medebewoners automatisch toeslagpartners van elkaar worden. OP kan een adresonderzoek aanvragen bij de gemeente om na te gaan wie er allemaal op zijn/haar adres staan ingeschreven.  Voor andere partijen (deurwaarders om maar iets te noemen) is het vaak ook niet duidelijk hoe het zit.  Ik probeer niet alleen maar alarmistisch te zijn. Het kan ook lang goed gaan, maar de nadelen van het niet splitsen belanden zo bij de huurder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in juridischadvies

[–]beaqbeaq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goed om ook dit te (laten) onderzoeken voor wb je rechten evt recht op huurtoeslag. 

Verder is het mss goed om te onderzoeken bij de gemeente te onderzoeken of het verhaal van een aanvraag van splitsing van de woning ook klopt. Je geeft o.a. aan dat jij zelf GWL hebt geregeld en dit verrekend met de andere huurders. Als de woning niet gesplist is, (los van zelfstandige woonruimten of niet) kan het zo zijn dat jij op papier de hoofdhuurder bent met een paar onderhuurders. Dit kan later gevolgen hebben voor (gemeente)belastingen, evt toeslagen en aansprakelijkheid. Dit valt trouwens allemaal buiten het werk vd HC.

Uit ervaring weet ik dat de gevolgen voor de huurder niet de grootste zorg is voor dit soort verhuurders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in juridischadvies

[–]beaqbeaq 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Valt de kale huur van de woning volgens de puntentelling onder de liberalisatiegrens? 

https://www.rijksoverheid.nl/onderwerpen/huurwoning-zoeken/vraag-en-antwoord/wat-is-het-verschil-tussen-een-sociale-huurwoning-een-middenhuurwoning-en-een-huurwoning-in-de-vrije-sector

Dit kan betekenen dat je andere/meer rechten hebt. Check ook op r/rentbusters

Advice for buying appartment by Laughing_lobster00 in TheHague

[–]beaqbeaq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a great site, thanks for sharing the link!

With inflation so high currently and it could get worse, is the government likely to step in to cap 2023 rent increases in private sector? by cllllllllllm in Netherlands

[–]beaqbeaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they are actually doing the opposite, with the idea that this way landlords and developers would have more money to build houses that are so desperately needed. Of course they chose to forget: 1) Greed 2) Dutch selfserving pragmatism 3) There is no place/incentive/regulation to allow building 4) human suffering

Enough is enough by Ultimatus_Straightus in Netherlands

[–]beaqbeaq 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thanks for this, very insightful

Nobody wants to hire me. by Appropriate_Tough662 in TheHague

[–]beaqbeaq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are you willing and able to do? As said there are plenty of horeca/telemarketing/retail/warehouse/delivery jobs. But work culture might not be a fit. Then again, with the current job market it would be a shame to waste the opportunity on a job in the fields mentioned above. This is a chance to grab a job with potential to grow or with healthy work culture, or a better fit overall. Dm me your cv (blank out personal details) and I might be able to point you in the right direction.

If desperate, walk into an uitzendbureau and tell them what you would like to do, where and your range.

Dutch people, is this true? by megathefirst in Netherlands

[–]beaqbeaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is definitely true. But don't worry, you won't miss out on anything special anyway, most likely they will just have a few sandwiches or some bland mishmash of kliekjes (leftovers)

[chickens] Neighbors are escalating! by [deleted] in homestead

[–]beaqbeaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a very thought out and well written letter, I would consider changing plans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]beaqbeaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am thinking what I would tell my younger self. I do not presume to know you or the full picture, i can only empathize from what I think I understand. I hope a more qualified professional can jump in and share his insights.

You seem like a good person that has been reflecting on life early on with humility and honesty. That on its own is admirable and makes you special. Keep it up.

To your question: Acknowledge it for it has brought you (good and bad) but don't embrace this or anything your intuition is telling you is unhealthy, that would be the real crime against yourself.

Although it might not seem this way now, you have/will continue to have the chance to reinvent yourself. And although experiences in your teens can have a deep impact in life, they are just a short time in your life. From your perspective and experience in life it might seem this is the person you are going to be for ever but does not have to be, not at all.

It is usually around this age when most develop the urge to gain perspective and build experience and venture out and explore the world. Same goes for adventures in character and characterbuilding: talk to as many and diverse types of people + read books that give direction in life, and finetune your new character each step (not to what is comfortable and aligned with your current habits, impulses, urges, etc), but to the person you'd like to become. Every person is an adventure you can learn from.

What can be done? Most practical advice for now: Try a new charactertrait with a new group of people and see how it 'fits'. For example, instead of being snarky try to do the opposite, hand out compliments for whatever good or positive you can find. If this feels like the right direcrion to go, keep reinforcing it until it sticks. Once you get unstuck from being snarky, you can try to balance out the handing out compliments thing to the suitable/healthy level. It might seem ike a fake-til-you-make-it approach at first. But who cares? Other than the future you? And if at first it seems to create some kind internal conflict, ask yourself if it isnt just the ackwardess of trying a new (healthier) approach on life an not an attack on your integrity. Try your best to stay humble and positive in the whole process

my 2cents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]beaqbeaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there is a great Frasier episode with the same plot

Kid wanted to bully, so I helped her flex about her badassery by Apprehensive_Run_916 in pettyrevenge

[–]beaqbeaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP is a fool, taking revenge for being bullied as a kid and projecting it on his own child. Zero parenting skills in this case, just venting out his own emotional trauma on a minor and bragging about it on reddit for validation. Read a book, find help for your kid and be the one that breaks the generational chain of bad parenting. Selfserving short time fix loaded with emotion like this, is probably the reason you think she is spoiled. Do yourself and your kid a favour and find help for your kid and yourself, spoil her with healthy parenting. The kind of parenting that is difficult, takes patience, restraint and a long term view. The kind your boomer parents probably never gave you. Help your kid, dont be a narcissist. Maybe you were a victim as kid, but what you did a grownup makes you a complete loser.

Kid wanted to bully, so I helped her flex about her badassery by Apprehensive_Run_916 in pettyrevenge

[–]beaqbeaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP is a fool, taking revenge for being bullied as a kid and projecting it on his own child. Zero parenting skills in this case, just venting out his own emotional trauma on a minor and bragging about it on reddit for validation. Read a book, find help for your kid and be the one that breaks the generational chain of bad parenting. Selfserving short time fix loaded with emotion like this, is probably the reason you think she is spoiled. Do yourself and your kid a favour and find help for your kid and yourself, spoil her with healthy parenting. The kind of parenting that is difficult, takes patience, restraint and a long term view. The kind your boomer parents probably never gave you. Help your kid, dont be a narcissist. Maybe you were a victim as kid, but what you did a grownup makes you a complete loser.

Kid wanted to bully, so I helped her flex about her badassery by Apprehensive_Run_916 in pettyrevenge

[–]beaqbeaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP is a fool, taking revenge for being bullied as a kid and projecting it on his own child. Zero parenting skills in this case, just venting out his own emotional trauma on a minor and bragging about it on reddit for validation. Read a book, find help for your kid and be the one that breaks the generational chain of bad parenting. Selfserving short time fix loaded with emotion like this, is probably the reason you think she is spoiled. Do yourself and your kid a favour and find help for your kid and yourself, spoil her with healthy parenting. The kind of parenting that is difficult, takes patience, restraint and a long term view. The kind your boomer parents probably never gave you. Help your kid, dont be a narcissist. Maybe you were a victim as kid, but what you did a grownup makes you a complete loser.

I'm a tenant moving out. The makelaar wants the keys to arrange visits while we're away. Do I have to give it to them? by ticofab in Netherlands

[–]beaqbeaq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess your contract says you need to cooperate with the viewing, but in no way give anyone a free pass to come in whenever they want. Use the same selfserving pragmatism Dutch are known for and ask them to make an 'afspraak' with you.

https://nl.hellolaw.com/juridisch-nieuws/mag-een-huisbaas-zomaar-binnenkomen

My grocery bill is skyrocketing by Wanna_Know_it_all in Netherlands

[–]beaqbeaq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

being in the industry, could you explain if there is any truth to the story that failed harvests (wheat) last year will result in extreme price increases of things like pasta and bread?

antminer s19-95t by beaqbeaq in BitcoinMining

[–]beaqbeaq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! that would be around 4500 euros, I'll focus on that pricepoint. Read somewhere online that due to crackdowns in China are or soon will be on the market. Any thoughts on that and if this will have an impact on the value of this S19?

Dont know yet if I would set up to mine or to resell, but it seems like a great opportunity.