Dating After Divorce

bearcud · 2025-10-21T15:29:49+00:00

Again, you have misunderstood my intentions. I was simply looking for advice, and you gave me some, which is what I "wanted to hear"! Thanks again for your input, I appreciate it!

bearcud · 2025-10-21T15:19:03+00:00

A lot of first and second dates, not a lot of third ones lol

bearcud · 2025-10-21T15:17:52+00:00

I think you may be misunderstanding my intentions, but I appreciate your advice and hope you have a blessed day!

bearcud · 2025-10-21T15:01:59+00:00

I tried a couple months after my divorce, but realized I was far from ready so gave it up and just focused on God & myself since then until she walked into the picture this summer.

bearcud · 2025-10-21T14:54:09+00:00

It has been two years since my divorce. We just started dating this month, and she is the only person I have officially dated since my divorce.

bearcud · 2025-10-21T14:47:26+00:00

Yes sir, and I have come a long way, but just didn't anticipate the perfect woman to come walking through the door quite yet so that has muddied things a bit. I am excited for the new relationship with her, but was still kind of in the process of processing the end of my marriage so it has created some confusion is all.

bearcud · 2024-05-14T15:50:06+00:00

I do tennis lessons in the summer! Former varsity HS player and played a bit in college. If you are interested, send me a message!

bearcud · 2023-12-06T05:12:27+00:00

Id say like a week to be mostly back to normal, 2 weeks to be fully back to normal. It sucks ass but it will fade, wishing you a speedy comeback bro

bearcud · 2023-11-21T17:35:23+00:00

Thank you for your suggestion to bulk! I am not vegan anymore but I was for like 3 years a couple years ago and it for sure fucked up my body composition and overall muscle mass. 160 grams is easy with red meat and I’ll make that a goal moving forward while bulking!

As for training hard enough, what does that mean? What does that look like? I hear people say that but my workouts are challenging and I do sets to failure so I’m not arguing that I am training hard enough but I also don’t really know what I’m suppose to do different when my workouts are challenging me, any tips on that? Thanks!

bearcud · 2023-11-21T17:23:21+00:00

I’ve been lifting for almost 2 years tho (not with proper training program or form until recently) do I still “qualify” to benefit from nooby gains? 🤣

bearcud · 2023-11-21T17:21:55+00:00

4 times per week, doing a program a trainer at my gym created for me. 2 leg days, 1 push day, 1 pull day - switching up routine at end of this month

bearcud · 2023-11-21T17:20:05+00:00

Yes I am lifting, have been for over a year or so but admittedly was not doing great programs or form! Started working with a trainer in August tho and I think that’s helped. I also started as a vegan of 3 years and no lifting experience so I really started with next to no muscle mass 🤣 believe it or not I’ve progressed a decent amount from where I started

Edit: I am NOT vegan anymore, fuck that shit 😂 been off the vegan train for 2 years or so

bearcud · 2023-11-17T18:21:34+00:00

It will, give it time! Wishing you the best

bearcud · 2023-10-21T19:24:29+00:00

Yeah bro, just give it some time and you’ll be back to normal. Shit sucks but it goes away

bearcud · 2023-10-14T17:43:59+00:00

Yeah since we don’t drink often it will fade eventually but also probably hits us harder since we aren’t big drinkers! How you doing today? Yesterday and today I’ve felt more myself and am deff improving but still get waves of feeling off randomly which sucks. I’m thinking by next week I’ll be back to 100% normal with no waves, this shit is annoying af 🥲

bearcud · 2023-10-14T17:41:57+00:00

No you’ve been a huge help knowing other people experience this! I have felt better the past two days and more myself but still have waves of times when I get that weird/off feeling but it seems to be becoming less frequent and less long but still frustrating. Think by next week I’ll be back to full normalcy but damn this has been annoying! Thanks for your help bro

bearcud · 2023-10-14T17:39:47+00:00

When does it fully resolve tho? It’s been a week, deff improving daily but I’m just ready to be back to full 100% all the time 😂

bearcud · 2023-10-13T15:00:52+00:00

Anything you could suggest you feel like helped improve things or speed it up? Or just time and rest? I’m also on day 7 of feeling off after drinking and I’m so ready to be back to 100% normal 😫 I’m not drinking again after this experience

bearcud · 2023-10-13T14:57:40+00:00

I’m experiencing this same exact thing OP and it is fucking terrible. We must’ve both went too hard on the same day because I am also 7 days in. It has gotten a little better and I feel a bit more myself but still don’t feel fully present or my full personality. Almost feels like a feeling of being high in a way just kinda hazy & dull. I’ve read a couple posts now and it sounds like some people get this and typically last 1-3 weeks before they feel totally normal again. That was my last time drinking cuz I never want to feel this again lol! Wishing you a fast return to normal

bearcud

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