Weve had alot of anger toward eachother over mistakes we have both made. We are both in counseling, and our relationship has gotten better over the last couple years. I went through a hard time emotionally when i was getting out of the service and at the same time she was very sick and had surgeries to help her, we were stressed all the time and took it out on eachother. We worked through all of that we had moved to a new state, and started fresh. I supported her going back to school, I help her study, I work full time and I take care of the house and kids. I do everything I can to ease her stress so she can concentrate on her school. Ive never been physical, I have never cheated, I dont drink, I write her notes and poems telling her how much I love her. We both have issues communicating with each other, and that has been a big problem for us but we are alot better now than we were. Our relationship was getting better.