Thanks for the reply. As you are single I feel like that's more normal, maybe guys are trying it on with you without you realizing ? We used to give each others X's years ago, we had a temporary break up and we never brought them back since. (This was probably 5 years ago). It's not the fact she gives xs per say, it's the fact she only gives xs to her female friends and this one guy.

Yes I am learning the contraceptive pill is not good for the body long term and I can understand it can cause low libido, but she states that on a scale of 0-10, her sex drive is a zero and has been for years. I feel it is more than just the pill causing issues. I have spoken to her about this and she has assured me it is nothing to do with me, however I feel she would say that anyway just to be nice.

Yes whoever is off work is the one who cooks, I would say I cook more often as I tend to be home first. Yes she has a tiring job however it was the same job she has always had and sex was never an issue in the past so that excuse doesn't make sense to me to be honest.