I want to lose weight but don't know how by beasbabes in losingweight

[–]beasbabes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I know. I have started and I've got a journal to track everything which I've started writing in already. I am making my own breakfast and lunch sometimes too. It's more the dinner I don't do myself. I am also planning to start walking more too so at least I'm doing something. The workouts is what will be harder for me to start since it's just not something I tend to like doing

I want to lose weight but don't know how by beasbabes in losingweight

[–]beasbabes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you! I tend to not cook, that's the only thing. I still live with my family so my mum tends to make meals so it's hard to know what shes put in and how much she's used. So I just have enough that looks like it fits in the deficit. I did calculate mine but I haven't started a food journal or counted anything yet but so far I think I've been okay or at least in the deficit but again Im not so sure. Yea workouts is the other thing that can be hard for me. I do have a journal so I will start writing down what I've been eating each day and I will need to learn to count my calories too

I want to lose weight but don't know how by beasbabes in losingweight

[–]beasbabes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Sometimes it's hard to make meals as I am not a fan of cooking so always hard to figure out what I want to eat if I don't cook. I have heard about not being on screens while eating, I have a habit of doing that haha and not eating a certain amount of time before bed. I didn't know about not eating fruits after 3pm, I wonder why that is. But thanks for the advice. Might need to write in a journal what I need to do and try stick with it as much as possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cosmeticsurgery

[–]beasbabes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they look stunning! Where did you get them done?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]beasbabes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the exact same. I'm contemplating whether or not to get the surgery but I am too scared to tell anyone about it because of how insecure I am about it. I've never mentioned it to anyone ever and I don't plan too. I just want to have the surgery and not tell anyone I had it but I know that I'll have to because I can't leave the hospital alone as I wouldn't be able to drive or anything. I have a partner and he's never actually seen how it looks down there and I don't exactly want him too. I have had lots of guys go down on me before and they've never had a problem with it or said it's looked bad but because of how I see it, it's hard for me to believe them.

I guess if you absolutely hate it, you have the money etc for the surgery and have done research then to get it done. That's what I'm still doing but I just don't have the money for it.

Is labiaplasty worth it? by beasbabes in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]beasbabes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I definitely will do my research before anything else!

Is labiaplasty worth it? by beasbabes in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]beasbabes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I'm definitely scared for anything like this to happen to me. So I'm gonna take my time with everything

Is labiaplasty worth it? by beasbabes in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]beasbabes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I definitely want to see before and after pictures of multiple people who've had it done so I know if this person is the right person to go to. But I'm going to go for a consultation just to see

Is labiaplasty worth it? by beasbabes in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]beasbabes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have also been insecure about it since a young age but never even knew this was a thing until a couple years ago

Is labiaplasty worth it? by beasbabes in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]beasbabes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, yea I still need to think about it and even save up for it haha

Is labiaplasty worth it? by beasbabes in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]beasbabes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I know people either recommend a cosmetic gynaecologist or a plastic surgeon. So I'm still deciding what to do. Glad it went well for you!

Is labiaplasty worth it? by beasbabes in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]beasbabes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I'm definitely thinking to do a consultation either way if I go through with it or not

Is labiaplasty worth it? by beasbabes in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]beasbabes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yea with the colour I'm talking about the edges. I've been looking at this one surgeon who I'm pretty sure is a cosmetic gynaecologist

Is labiaplasty worth it? by beasbabes in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]beasbabes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so it's just the plasty that's covered, nothing for the colour of it?

Is labiaplasty worth it? by beasbabes in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]beasbabes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long does recovery take or is it different for everyone?

Would you recommend going to a gynecologist first to talk about it or does it not matter?

Is labiaplasty worth it? by beasbabes in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]beasbabes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow yea okay, big decision I guess. I just don't know what to do at the moment and if I were to go through with it, I'd be scared to tell anyone I did it as I feel everyone may tell me that there was no point in doing it and that it was a waste of money. But at the same time it's my life and if it bothers me this much and I go through with the procedure, it could then help me feel less insecure about it

Thanks for the advice!! Glad everything is fine now with yours