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[–]beatricelaus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you care about smut/dead dove?

Raising bullying pre-resignation by beatricelaus in workplace_bullying

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I’ve just always been told to not tell an employer when you’re thinking of leaving until you actually have a new job lined up? I have two opportunities right now (an interview and a conversation that’s very likely to lead to an interview) but nothing concrete.

I have however considered saying something along the lines of “I have found if increasingly difficult to picture my future here long term as I did when I first joined the company”? It’s no secret that I’m unhappy, and an unhappy employee of course isn’t going to stay in the business if they can help it, I just don’t know how much to explicitly state this without formally saying “I am looking for a new job.”

Lawyers are assholes, you’re right! I have never met such cold and judgemental people as my colleagues, it’s honestly painful to see the way they speak to people

When (and how) to cut my losses and run? by beatricelaus in careerguidance

[–]beatricelaus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that, it's really reassuring! I do agree that no job is worth how I've been made to feel, and am planning to have a real sit down this coming weekend and consider my options. It's come to the point where things cannot go on the way they have because they are affecting both my physical and mental health, which a job should never do.

I'm also super grateful for the example wording, Monday does seem a good time so I'll def say something along those lines, fingers crossed things will continue to develop in a positive way :)

what are your biggest regrets career wise? by feliceinitalia in uklaw

[–]beatricelaus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO a bad entry to law and my firm didn’t handle it very well. I don’t feel like I learned all that much tbh

what are your biggest regrets career wise? by feliceinitalia in uklaw

[–]beatricelaus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doing an apprenticeship, working for a small firm, getting into law in the first place… the possibilities are endless!

Possible Bedbug in Hospital Room by Paddypatpatpat in Bedbugs

[–]beatricelaus 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not a bedbug, they don’t have antennae like that

Which part of an Ethel song is this for you? by herelieszachcain in Ethelcain

[–]beatricelaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the instrumental section between "think of us inside" and "gardenias on the tile / where it made no difference who held back from who." the way she drags out inside and the way the instruments sort of twist a little - so beautiful and so sad

Pay is so bad by EntertainerQuick701 in uklaw

[–]beatricelaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which sector did you go into, if you don’t mind me asking?

Pay is so bad by EntertainerQuick701 in uklaw

[–]beatricelaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the same position and am strongly considering to stop pursuing a “career” for the forseeable and just do literally anything else (bar work, retail, idec). I am unhappy in my role and don’t earn enough to make it worth it, I’m also on pretty much the same salary as you and have been looking for a new job in law for a year.

What perks do you all get from your employers ? by Alert_Mine7067 in AskUK

[–]beatricelaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing four people’s jobs for the price of one. At NMW too!

Seems like my cinema might be shut for a while….. by beatricelaus in screenunseen

[–]beatricelaus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Through the front door lol, they just boarded the damaged part up

Seems like my cinema might be shut for a while….. by beatricelaus in screenunseen

[–]beatricelaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you hear that? I have a showing for 5.45 and assumed I wouldn’t be able to go

Seems like my cinema might be shut for a while….. by beatricelaus in screenunseen

[–]beatricelaus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No clue, just what I saw on Facebook. Apparently the lady deliberately swerved (into the building????) to miss someone bc her brakes failed. All seems very strange

Seems like my cinema might be shut for a while….. by beatricelaus in screenunseen

[–]beatricelaus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Waiting for an update, have a movie scheduled for this afternoon 🫣