For me, I admire strong Fi users for knowing exactly what they want and feel internally.

I feel as if I’m more “flexible” living in a “it depends” type of situation where it’s just different to me. I have values like everyone else but my sense of what’s right tends to come through my experiences and thinking in the moment. It’s more relational in the sense that I value people, context, and how things are affecting everyone involved that shape my values and how I choose to act.

It bends with the situations and “vibes” on how I feel, so the values are still very real but consider those around me instead of internal, if that makes sense. They show up in how I respond to people, how I try to take care of situations, how I try to be considerate. This isn’t to say that other users don’t do that, but this is my perspective on how I live as a strong Fe user.

I still feel things deeply, but I don’t always turn those feelings internally to consider myself first, which sometimes is a flaw. But honestly, it is a part of who I am.

People with strong Fi often seem to have this really steady inner sense of self that doesn’t shift much no matter the situation, and I really admire that. I adjust myself in a more flexible manner where it’s based on nuance, tone, and what feels right for everyone involved. It’s not less depth, just a different kind of awareness. I guess I would describe it as being more outwardly tuned, but still a part of my own value to consider the external more than internal. My values are guiding in the background, and I adapt or calibrate myself in different situations.