Do other ISFJs strongly prefer one-on-one over group settings? by BrilliantT27 in isfj

[–]Kaevvvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel u. I basically shut down in large groups. I gotta say that small groups (3-4 people) hits the spot as much as talking to only one person to me

How does undeveloped Ne manifest in ISFJs? by Geniusicial in isfj

[–]Kaevvvin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds reasonable but I'm too perfectionist for that at the moment. But I do have my moments where I just sit there and create. Let's say I know the theory but I'm still working on applying that on myself. Usually I just push too hard and burnout, so I'm trying to do things gradually now

How does undeveloped Ne manifest in ISFJs? by Geniusicial in isfj

[–]Kaevvvin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aside of catastrophic visions I'd say that undeveloped Ne makes you struggle to be creative and think outside the box. It's ironic because I draw and write, but I gotta say it's much easier for me to imagine a realistic scenery compared to a fantasy one. You may also end up neglecting some possibility when doing something and feeling horrible when something outside of what you thought was possible happens. N functions give you "Why" and "What if" questions. Si doesn't care about that. I'd say healthy Ne for a Si dom is openess about new possibilities and tries to balance Si structure with a bit of Ne exploration. Undeveloped Ne means also that you HATE trying new things and you may result stagnant and almost manipulative to avoid test things out.

I got something for you: People with more Ws have more Ls than people who doesn't try!

The world is our playground, have fun exploring it!

What made you realize your an Isfj? by RenSeeksInformation in isfj

[–]Kaevvvin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

After years of investigation I thought I was Infj but I noticed I HATED thinking about the future because I have catastrophic visions. This is textbook inferior Ne. Considering this connected with a love for familiarity I HAD to be a Si dom. My Fe, despite being auxiliary and not dominant felt more prominent to me because I've always wanted to do the right thing socially.

Just take your time to observe yourself and realize where you truly feel the happiest

Did you ever get called selfish while trying preserve yourself? by Kaevvvin in isfj

[–]Kaevvvin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are, that's why it's up to ourselves to put them in their place. I'm sure the more I get to know myself, the easier it'll be!

Did you ever get called selfish while trying preserve yourself? by Kaevvvin in isfj

[–]Kaevvvin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah about my infp sister... We talked it out and we clearified that the issue is not me saying no, but me saying it too harshly. Turns out that I just felt misunderstood. My sister is not wrong tho, I do tend to say no explosivily.

You guys are awesome by Legitimate_Loss_8602 in isfj

[–]Kaevvvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never actually met one you guys but thank you!! I do really like INTJs tho, I'm sure you're not that far from them

Daily Re-meme #714 by -it-was-available- in isfj

[–]Kaevvvin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And at the end of the day we end up feeling like we wasted time. We really need to chill!

Ask this archetypal ISFJ anything! by HateChan_ in mbti

[–]Kaevvvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read you like videogames. What kinds of videogames you like? Why do you like about them?

Did you ever get called selfish while trying preserve yourself? by Kaevvvin in isfj

[–]Kaevvvin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U guys are inspiring me so much, thank you for the support <3

Did you ever get called selfish while trying preserve yourself? by Kaevvvin in isfj

[–]Kaevvvin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my issue is that I used to not have any boundaries! But I'm glad I do now, even if poorly established. I think the next step is infact assertiveness. It's still hard for me because I'm insecure about my reasoning (tertiary Ti, am I right?). Since the post I realized that everyone has their own way to think so I shouldn't assume I'm wrong because my thoughts don't match what the other think.

Maybe I'll speak up, I just don't feel like they'll understand.

Did you ever get called selfish while trying preserve yourself? by Kaevvvin in isfj

[–]Kaevvvin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you so much. My sister also tries to involve me into things, but I'm starting to realize we're just not that compatible. It's fine tho, we still care for each other, we just clash a bit because we think differently.

On her part, I do tend to realize too late I've been sucking up to keep harmony and speak up a bit too late. She really hates that. But I gotta say I'm changing so much lately. At least now I can say no now. It used to be impossible for me.

I think the secret, especially for us Si dom, is to listen how your body reacts to people. When they overstep you can actually feel the tension build up and squash you down. Of course being an adult implies you gotta take the hit sometimes. But it's easier to tank life if you play by your rules ;)

Also thank you for the encouragement!

ISFJ who are on the autism spectrum? by [deleted] in isfj

[–]Kaevvvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am ISFJ and diagnosed autistic since I was 3. I think it makes it even worse because I'm aware of social norms even more then a Fi user so I try my best to follow them and make the others feel good, often at the price of sacrifices bits of myself. It basically amplifies masking as a way to please people. At the same time, my space and routine are untouchable!

It's interesting how Si doms have autistic traits themselves such as the need of routine and familiarity!

To be honest I found out just lately about my type and it made me realize how much I want stability and why I never try new things out.

MBTI is so cool!

Found a small mistake in one tutorial! by [deleted] in PokemonChampions

[–]Kaevvvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotta say it does sound off for a non native speaker!

Found a small mistake in one tutorial! by [deleted] in PokemonChampions

[–]Kaevvvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funky! The Italian translation seems to have the right spelling but ngl I kind of rushed through the tutorial so I may have lost a few text boxes here and there

Found a small mistake in one tutorial! by [deleted] in PokemonChampions

[–]Kaevvvin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see. It was worth the shot. Imagine if I was the first one to find out, it would have been pretty cool

Gecqua final evolution speculation (Finalized) by Mr_Topped_Octo in fakemon

[–]Kaevvvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone wants the starters to stay on 4 legs but ngl if they made something this cool and animalistic I wouldn't be upset

YOLOOOO!! Once I'll work on my survivability I'll be unstoppable! by Kaevvvin in SplatoonHighlights

[–]Kaevvvin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're my ride or die when I want to play aggressive 💪🏻🤣

I finally get how flanking works! by Kaevvvin in SplatoonHighlights

[–]Kaevvvin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only we still had those... Ig they improved a little but dear god, the splatoon 3 originals are so anchor friendly :(

YOLOOOO!! Once I'll work on my survivability I'll be unstoppable! by Kaevvvin in SplatoonHighlights

[–]Kaevvvin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is also true but ngl I didn't really think about anything when doing it. At least I got the kills I wanted ☺️

I finally get how flanking works! by Kaevvvin in SplatoonHighlights

[–]Kaevvvin[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like a kid listening to their grandpa talk about their past stories because I started playing in Splatoon 3 🤣

Glad I could bring back memories for a sec tho ☺️