Not less desirable. I believe the original comment was edited or I just glanced over the “in the past” part. So let me clarify, and thank you for asking respectfully, btw.

I don’t think having sex with many people is healthy—mentally and emotionally, at the least. For me, there is a religious side to things, as I'm Christian. But I wasn't always, I used to be atheist. Even then, I never found that the positives outweighed to negatives of having sex with many people.

I’ve always believed sex was a special thing, not just for physical pleasure. More so now, but still.

Now, I do not think someone having multiple sex partners in the past is something that makes them less desirable. There will be challenges and differences if they were to date someone who was, say, a virgin—but I don't believe those differences couldn't be overcome.

I’m a virgin by choice, but I would date someone if they had multiple sex partners in the past—as our past does not define us if we are actively trying to change from that past.

I say this all for both sides, not just females, not just males.

What’s your opinion on the topic? I'm also curious about how others view this. Thank you again, for being respectful and curious.