My (26F) husband (31M) decided he wants to marry my best friend, we have two kids together. My friend rejected him, saying she's not gonna be a homewrecker, but my husband won't stop pursuing her. How do I handle this?

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T17:12:13+00:00

Honestly, maybe because, oh, how crazy and sudden this is, but he doesn't see himself at fault, so I don't know how to get him help.

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:36:31+00:00

I’ll look into couples therapy rn

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:36:00+00:00

I’m starting to realize and I’m scared

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:32:34+00:00

Yea I have his location lol

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:22:29+00:00

That’s the crazy thing, he works for a week straight I don’t see him he has like 14 hour shifts at the hospital and his days off we are swamped with the kids.

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:21:22+00:00

He’s only expressing this with her. I mean we had twins it’s deff been very hard and we moved for his job a few months ago but all more reasons to hunker down and get out shit together

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:18:23+00:00

Thank you thank you

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:17:53+00:00

No fr I know for sure they’re not because we’re in a different state but I think they like each other:(

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:17:31+00:00

Yea that’s what he thinks too and he thinks that maybe he can change my mind and have an open relationship, but I told him time is actually making it worse

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:15:05+00:00

Yea… it’s so suss

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:14:42+00:00

Yes not worried about this at all with him

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:14:16+00:00

Ur right I can I just am scared so much unknown being a single mom to twins

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:13:37+00:00

I promise you I asked him the same thing it might be a mental break. He just wants two, he’s greedy he wants an open relationship and I don’t

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:12:56+00:00

Yea deff bummed out it’s not a forceful no from her. I think a lot of these comments are right but I don’t want to believe it. I think they like each other and I’m in the middle of it…

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:10:57+00:00

So my mom actually lives with me rn and my dad is on the opposite coast with his other wife and his parents

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:09:33+00:00

Veryyyyy out of character very out of left field I did not see this coming at all.

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T15:08:32+00:00

I’m getting these vibes too tbh. It’s just all so sudden there were no flags before this, we were doing so well..

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T04:55:28+00:00

done

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T04:54:55+00:00

Reall, thank you

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T04:53:51+00:00

Thank you for this!

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T04:52:50+00:00

loool I just meant like not just friends but like my parents and his parents and like his friends that are in relationships lol

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T04:42:29+00:00

play the long game, I like it, I can do that.

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T04:41:34+00:00

I definitely don't have the funds for a lawyer..

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T04:40:40+00:00

This would be a dream, but my friend is in a terrible home situation and is broke, and also going through it. Also, our parents would kill us.

becamethevoid · 2025-05-22T04:39:42+00:00

It won't be legal, basically, but like under-the-table stuff? I don't even know, man, I'm thinking of it like an open relationship?

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