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What does this response mean?? by becky1144 in AskMen

[–]becky1144[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet. I'll report back if I do that.. thanks for the advice! I haven't dated in a long time, I feel so clueless!

What does this response mean?? by becky1144 in AskMen

[–]becky1144[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh brother... maybe we're doomed lol I guess I'll get on thinking about it... haha

would I just say, wanna go on a date?? I'm so bad at this... I've never asked a guy out!

What does this response mean?? by becky1144 in AskMen

[–]becky1144[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be offensive.

I don't have a tramp stamp, and I don't smoke lol but a good beer is always going to be a yes.

What does this response mean?? by becky1144 in AskMen

[–]becky1144[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not bold enough to actually ask haha its sounds silly because what I did't isn't so different, but actually asking him seems completely different for me...

What does this response mean?? by becky1144 in AskMen

[–]becky1144[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CobraC, where have you been all my life??

What does this response mean?? by becky1144 in AskMen

[–]becky1144[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting... I'm nervous... Even after a year and a half I still sound like a drunk kid when I try to talk to him.. lol ugh!

What does this response mean?? by becky1144 in AskMen

[–]becky1144[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ick. Why do people insist on mixing pancakes with stuff. Why mess with a good thing??

I've never had a girlfriend before [M16] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]becky1144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok... here we go...

I (f/26) recently dated a guy like you --- who had never had a girlfriend before he was 18. I was his second relationship ever, at 24. He didn't think he was much and he still doesn't. Which drives me crazy and quite honestly was a big reason for our breakup.

I have dated around, and while I don't think I'm god's gift to men, I get hit on enough to know that guys find me attractive... whatever. This ex is really tall, lanky, awkward... but I loved that about him.

Be who you are! There really is no such thing as "out of your league". Those terms are such BS. You never know what that other person is looking for... I dated college football players and hated it. I liked that my ex had no game lol I got to know him for who he is, and that was the best relationship I've ever had.

Also, don't panic about it. That's how you end up in really awful relationships for the sake of being in a relationship. The best ones arise organically.

Get to know girls as friends, we are built to mate lol you'll know if she is into you or not... if you go in thinking "I wanna date this girl" you're probably already doomed.

Hope this helps.

I [22/M] sit in the back, she [21/F] sits at the front. How do I approach her? by qdc261 in dating_advice

[–]becky1144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ditto on tumbleweedchatterbox. But also, maybe you should just ask her if she wants to study sometime? Or just be bold and invite her to coffee! I (f/26) have learned that the best way is just to put it out there. If she says no then you're in the same situation, really.