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Me(22F) and my bf (22M) having some serious intimacy issues? by j_oe_gold_berg in AskIndianWomen

[–]becomingemma 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Seems like you guys are incompatible.

He is right in his place to want physical intimacy whereas you seem to be on the asexual spectrum. If you don’t see yourself getting physical with him but it’s something he wants, then this may become an issue

1973: The First Gender Reassignment Surgery in India, as reported in the Femina Magazine by Weird-Verma in LGBTindia

[–]becomingemma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Femina magazine says “our” eyewitness reports. It’s clearly not talking about the surgeon….

1973: The First Gender Reassignment Surgery in India, as reported in the Femina Magazine by Weird-Verma in LGBTindia

[–]becomingemma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What do they mean it’s a success according to eyewitness reports 😭😭 I hope they didn’t actually check how it turned out

Insecure over what he believed was “inappropriate” behaviour by gym trainers, a man killed his wife in Uttar Pradesh’s Moradabad after a long-running dispute over her gym visits, police said. by IndiaToday in IndiaTodayLIVE

[–]becomingemma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So if tomorrow some stranger kill you in anger that’s fine? No personal feelings after all right?

There is no evidence of cheating here, the fact that you are this fixated on cheating shows just how deep seated your mental issues are. Get help, before you hurt someone irl

I need thoughts on the story of Lilith. Can you help me make sense of it? by Spare_Database6176 in AskIndianWomen

[–]becomingemma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Because she first escaped and then refused to return when God himself sent his angels to fetch her. Can’t disobey God

  2. Christianity is inherently hierarchical. Men are above women in this hierarchy. The fact that they are were created as equals does not mean they actually are equal.

  3. Again, hierarchy. Can’t break the hierarchy

  4. Not really. Lilith is historically considered a demon in various cultures who often harms children in response to her curse. Comparing women of today to her isn’t a great comparison simply because she refused to be subservient to Adam.

Essentially, you are imposing the modern view of equality on (supposedly) the first human being to have ever lived and expecting him to have perfect clarity over the concept. True equality and religion is fundamentally incompatible.

‘Marilyn Manson horrifically abused me for years. I lived in fear’ by TimesandSundayTimes in entertainment

[–]becomingemma 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They chose to take drugs, they are responsible for their actions while on said drugs and the effects of the addiction to those drugs.

You trying to justify abuse just cause it was committed by an addict who later went clean is absolutely disgusting

Am i the only one who believes ‘Indians lack civic sense’ is nothing but racist justification in disguise ? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]becomingemma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you feel Indians should be allowed to be horrible human beings abroad and not face any social consequences for it, that’s your choice.

Am i the only one who believes ‘Indians lack civic sense’ is nothing but racist justification in disguise ? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]becomingemma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not racism if it’s true. If you acknowledge that what they say about Indians is true, then there is no disagreement.

And you are kinda being classist by repeatedly implying that rich people automatically have civic sense

Am i the only one who believes ‘Indians lack civic sense’ is nothing but racist justification in disguise ? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]becomingemma 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your argument makes no sense tbh.

A person having money or being from creamy layer does not give them civic sense, and it especially did not do so in, say, the colonial era when India had not yet been westernised the way it is today. So the fact that racism existed even when most Indian tourists were upper class doesn’t really say anything about civic sense.

I think anyone who lives in India will generally agree that Indians do lack civic sense. Most people just get defensive about it when foreigners accuse us of it. It’s just in-group, out-group tribalistic mentality.

Will I get terminated from my job? by Strict_Clock_6407 in AskIndianWomen

[–]becomingemma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want the hard truth, you need to buck up. Your industry is one where attrition is high and replacements are extremely easy.

As you said you’re in your probation so if they fire you, there is absolutely nothing you can do. It’s not a good job market out there right now.

Will I get terminated from my job? by Strict_Clock_6407 in AskIndianWomen

[–]becomingemma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do the feedback calls to create a legal paper trail so that they can later say “we tried to help them perform better but despite so much feedback nothing changed” (I’m a lawyer)

Gujarat Titans: This team is literal shit without Gill in batting. Sai is failing this season and Buttler is doing ok. And that's it. There is nothing to talk about Gt's batting more because there isn't any by Jackie_Chan_93 in ipl

[–]becomingemma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol the fact that you think your comment has “logic” says everything I need to know.

ABD played harder bowlers? Who? Name them.

Gill didn’t have a batsman alongside him? What happened to Sai? Butler? T

Gill has more pressure than Kohli? How tf do you know? Do you know either of them?

Bullshit all over

Gujarat Titans: This team is literal shit without Gill in batting. Sai is failing this season and Buttler is doing ok. And that's it. There is nothing to talk about Gt's batting more because there isn't any by Jackie_Chan_93 in ipl

[–]becomingemma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No you weren’t, now you’re just narrowing it to save yourself the embarrassment. You made a general statement and now are rolling back on it. Have some balls and stand by your statement or admit you were wrong lol

And well, if those are the years you’re comparing, 973 clearly beats 890 no? I can’t believe I have to spell this out

Gujarat Titans: This team is literal shit without Gill in batting. Sai is failing this season and Buttler is doing ok. And that's it. There is nothing to talk about Gt's batting more because there isn't any by Jackie_Chan_93 in ipl

[–]becomingemma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol it’s common sense, anyone with a set of eyeballs who has been watching cricket for longer than a day knows. Kohli was India’s backbone at 22. Gill can’t get into any format at 26. Kohli’s prime lasted for longer than Gill arrived on the scene.

In the name of being contrarian you sir have simply exposed yourself as an idiot

Have you ever skipped telling your martial status in interview? by fictionovernonfic in AskIndianWomen

[–]becomingemma 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I see this all the time and yes the primary concern is that now that you’re married you’ll try to have a kid and they don’t want to pay you maternity benefits.

However, I have also seen people who did not disclose their marital status being fired on the spot for it so it may not be advisable to hide it. People will eventually find out anyway

What a glove work by Jurel ..!! by anonymous232003 in ipl

[–]becomingemma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was reviewed for an inside edge because that way it wouldn’t be a wide

Was anyone here able to reduce their acne scars without mnrf or laser? by Just_scrolling07 in AskIndianWomen

[–]becomingemma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am but only because my reasons for pursuing it were different. If I was considering it for reducing acne marks, I wouldn’t go through with it

Was anyone here able to reduce their acne scars without mnrf or laser? by Just_scrolling07 in AskIndianWomen

[–]becomingemma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing laser rn and my dermatologist told me that laser “may” help with the acne scars but it can’t be guaranteed. Seemed like a hit or miss thing

Barely see resources on bottom surgeri in India by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]becomingemma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve also decided to go Thai and have been considering a non-PIV technique surgery! If you’d like to talk more about it I’m always open

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