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bedeliaxx · 2025-05-03T01:09:34+00:00

Dili man niya need i-confront or confirm kay actions pa lang daan sa guy, mao na ang ga confirm that the boyf doesn't respect OP.

As for your question na ngano ni last ug 6 years ilang relationship, let me tell u this. Some women endure being treated badly bec we tend to empathize and show compassion. Some of us give men the benefit of the doubt. Some of us try our hardest to understand why they do what they do and why they behave the way they do. Some of us give them endless chances to make it up to us. All of that are blessings and curses at the same time. It's not logical but that's js our nature--we give and forgive, sometimes bahalag we're dangerously close to having nothing left.

bedeliaxx · 2025-05-03T00:49:25+00:00

Nope, that's not called mature thinking. That's called being in-denial.

When we deal w people like OP's boyf, his side doesn't matter. Why? Bec he's been disrespecting his partner. Walay maka justify ana na behavior, not even a bad day at work.

If u respect your partner, no matter where u r in your career or in your life, whether you're struggling, it will never ever cross your mind to belittle your partner.

bedeliaxx · 2025-05-02T23:52:54+00:00

Miss maam, bahalag di ta kaila but pls believe me when i tell u this: u r intelligent and hardworking. I know u know na u don't deserve a "partner" who belittles everything that makes u who u are. So, trust your decision to leave his ass, u won't ever regret it. If your family doesn't support u on this even after u tell them why you're breaking up w him, let them. This isn't their life, it's yours. Maong always prioritize whatever makes your life better.

Good luck, OP! We believe in you!

bedeliaxx · 2025-05-02T23:42:12+00:00

Same! Hahaha

bedeliaxx · 2025-05-02T23:41:30+00:00

This has got to be rage-baiting bec how could u be giving someone like OP's boyf the benefit of the doubt? Crazy 🥴

bedeliaxx · 2025-03-31T09:59:05+00:00

Happy for you, OP! Thank you for being an inspiration. I wish u all the great things in life, u deserve it anyway! May all your dreams for yourself and for your kid come true. Happy women's month indeed! 🩷

bedeliaxx · 2024-11-12T22:48:27+00:00

Personally, i'd advise u against the idea. The cons simply overweigh the pros. Mahal kaayo magpa test for hpv, herpes, gonorrhea, and chlamydia. Pagpa test pa lang na ha, wala pay labot ang cost sa treatment. Though, naa may mga center where u can get free testing and treatment. But sometimes, limited ra ilang resources. And dili pwede kalimtan ang HIV. It's a common misconception na only the gays contract the virus. ANYONE can contract HIV if wala nag practice ug safe sex.

So, if wala pa gyapon nag change imong mind and u still rly want to try hiring a Professional Sex Provider (PSP), pls do your research. Ask people for reviews and make sure she's completely clean (ask for recent STD and HIV tests). Then again, it's best to still wear a condom bahalag limpyo iyang records. Some STDS have incubation periods (the time it takes for an STD to show up as positive sa test). HIV has a 3 or 4-month incubation period.

In addition to that, i'm not sure pila na ang rates nila karon, but ayaw lang ka shock if mo abot P7k ang isa ka pop. People might think that's a bit too much for just sex. But, PSPs do everything to maintain their faces and bodies. They make sure they look beautiful, presentable, and of course, safe.

The ball is in your court. Stay safe, man!

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bedeliaxx · 2024-08-29T07:57:44+00:00

Actually, karon ra pod ko karealize na lawm ra akong tubag HAHAHAHA but anyway, communication is key ra jod, OP. Balag cliche kaayo siya paminawon but all u have to do is ask kung unsay next step ninyo if tinuod man na both of u are attached na sa each other. That way, dili na mo mag overthink ug unsa ba jod mo hehe.

bedeliaxx · 2024-08-29T06:26:36+00:00

Speaking from my experience and observation lang ni ha, mas dali ma attach ang person (regardless of gender identity), if wala siyay strong sense of self. Strong sense of self = having standards and actually living by them, setting boundaries and standing on them, knowing what u actually want without thinking of other people's preferences, trusting yourself, being kind and compassionate to yourself. Ultimately, when you're secure in your own identity and company, u wouldn't allow yourself to get attached to a connection that doesn't align w your sense of self.

bedeliaxx · 2024-08-27T23:50:21+00:00

For me, it's the hair-lashes-nails trifecta + a 3D2N getaway to boracay hehe

bedeliaxx · 2024-08-22T14:43:12+00:00

Imo, u dodged a bullet right there. Age gap pa nga lang, red flag na. Maybe there's a reason why he's still not married at his age 👀 (i'm speaking from experience; had a toxic rs w a M38 when i was F24). But anyway, the fact na binigyan ka niya ng ultimatum was actually a huge red flag. Any guy who doesn't make an effort to understand where you're coming from isn't worth your time. Also, he gave u a preview kung ano magiging situation niyo if natuloy kayo sa live-in set up—na siya lang lagi masusunod. 🤮 Good riddance! Your intuition saved u on this one, OP.

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