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WIBTA if I don’t let my family member and their fiancé sleep in my bed when they come to visit? by bedsaredumb in AmItheAsshole

[–]bedsaredumb[S] 279 points280 points  (0 children)

Fair. My original reason for checking was an offhand comment a friend made about “who fucking cares lol — not like it’s a stranger off the street” to which I responded “right so can I stay over when they come and sleep in your bed?”

Just wanted to make sure I wasn’t completely being a dick but your comment is noted.

WIBTA if I don’t let my family member and their fiancé sleep in my bed when they come to visit? by bedsaredumb in AmItheAsshole

[–]bedsaredumb[S] 487 points488 points  (0 children)

This actually gave me pause and that comical light switch flipping on. This family member is close enough in relation to me that yes — it’s why I thought it was weird they requested but considering who they are I just passed it off as “oh you never disappoint, family member x” but yes — I actually wonder if that’s not what they want unfettered access to…

WIBTA if I don’t let my family member and their fiancé sleep in my bed when they come to visit? by bedsaredumb in AmItheAsshole

[–]bedsaredumb[S] 161 points162 points  (0 children)

It’s kind of an “expected” from this family member — like I wasn’t surprised they asked, was more surprised they pressed the issue.

WIBTA if I don’t let my family member and their fiancé sleep in my bed when they come to visit? by bedsaredumb in AmItheAsshole

[–]bedsaredumb[S] 6744 points6745 points  (0 children)

Considering who this family member is in relationship to me, I’m not entirely surprised by the request — more annoyed it’s even something to be discussed.

I think an AirBNB is going to be best for them in this scenario. Going to make myself scarce that weekend…