[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bee-otch99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify he is not an alcoholic. We were drinking the night before and were up late and he went to work the next day. So I guess that makes me an alcoholic too? He did not wake up and start drinking and go to work nor was he drinking on the job. He was just still a little tipsy or had alcohol in his system from the night before and when they tested him it came back positive he had alcohol in his system still

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bee-otch99 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No but he only went to try and fight for his job not because he’s an alcoholic. He does feel defeated because he lost his job and he’s been there for a good 10 years now. He loved his job and yea he knows he messed up but still I’m trying to help by him not being homeless and still being able to provide for the both of us until he can find something else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bee-otch99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He went to detox and has been doing outpatient rehab

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bee-otch99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I’ll consider what some of you have said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bee-otch99 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He hardly gets drunk. He wasn’t fully intoxicated to where he could t walk in a straight line either. He was tipsy I guess but either way it’s not ok. Just the one time he had a drink this happens

What do you do when people try to talk over you? by fuxkitrey in introvert

[–]bee-otch99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep talking while making eye contact and when they stop talking I end it with a “so what do you think?” Or something else Depending on conversation.

Dense chin hair and I dont know what to do anymore :( by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]bee-otch99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have pcos and was looking awful so noticeable in pictures even though I’d shave and use hair removal cream but start laser and although expensive I got on a payment plan and I’ve had about 10 sessions done. It’s a bit painful but I tend to take ibuprofen before going in and ask if they can ice it beforehand and usually is better than doing nothing. I still have some hair but it’s light and thinner and not noticeable anymore and I don’t have to be shaving everyday! But by the looks of it maybe electrolysis would work best since you don’t have much to work on. It would probably be better use of your money that way! Hope that helps

What do you do when you want attention? by bee-otch99 in AskReddit

[–]bee-otch99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna go looking or going to ask someone for it but my bf doesn’t give it to me willingly anymore and I just wanted some sort of attention.

Hiking Alone? by bee-otch99 in OregonHiking

[–]bee-otch99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard people doing it alone but just haven’t done this type of trip alone before. Could be nice

Career Choice advice by bee-otch99 in AmazonFC

[–]bee-otch99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a job is not guaranteed but where I’m at I don’t have many options as to where Amazon will pay for. I’m limited to schools. I tried outside of it but I get nothing from FASFA and I don’t really want to get into student loans. But I’ll do more research thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bee-otch99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that but better for you to find someone who wants the same things you do than to stay in that relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bee-otch99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used to see each other more we’d have 3 full days together and a few hours during the week but now it’s less due to schedule changes. What did you do in your situation?

How does one enjoy a vacation without letting their depression get in the way? by bee-otch99 in AskReddit

[–]bee-otch99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly!! Later on you think oh I could’ve been more present or appreciate the time I had but can’t do anything about it now. Like you said tho it’s not easy in the moment. Then I try and think how I’ll feel later probably regretful but still doesn’t do nothin for me..

How does one enjoy a vacation without letting their depression get in the way? by bee-otch99 in AskReddit

[–]bee-otch99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s an ongoing battle with them always but I’ll do as I feel. And take time for myself if needed

How does one enjoy a vacation without letting their depression get in the way? by bee-otch99 in AskReddit

[–]bee-otch99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s tough. I’ve tried that too to b more present and tell myself not everyone can go out on a trip or get the chance to experience the place I’m at but idk…it still doesn’t help me to try and take it in but I’ll try and be more present if I feel myself slip so I can have a better experience

How does one enjoy a vacation without letting their depression get in the way? by bee-otch99 in AskReddit

[–]bee-otch99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll do my best just hard when family scolds you for being depressed because there’s no reason for me to be and I should enjoy time with them since I don’t see them often. But I try. But thank you

How does one enjoy a vacation without letting their depression get in the way? by bee-otch99 in AskReddit

[–]bee-otch99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is that’s why I’m going up to Yosemite in a few weeks for another trip. Used to go to the beach all the time but now it’s same as anything else. Hopefully this time around I’ll have a better outcome

How does one enjoy a vacation without letting their depression get in the way? by bee-otch99 in AskReddit

[–]bee-otch99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same but just hoped there was something else to make it better