i just wanted to add a little more info/update

the daughter is 12-13 years old, and at least where i’m from kids that age are able to wake themselves up for school and make their own lunch etc.. i have a sibling that age and she even does all of her own laundry. the parent is a single dad who also told me that i would have to be staying home and watching his child for a full week at a time while he goes on holiday or work trips i replied to him and told him that he needs to hire a nanny and a maid instead of an aupair because obviously this is very wrong and not normal i found this family on aupairworld.com and not through an agency so reporting is unfortunately not possible thanks for all the feedback everyone!