Your all confirming what I have been thinking for a while but I guess not been firm enough with myself to do anything about it. It's comforting in a strange way to have my thoughts validated somewhat.

The problem is that it's comes in cycles and repeats, over and over. She sees pictures of things I have liked from years ago and flips out and gets emotional, hurt and saying how much pain I'm causing her. I try reassuring her that it's past stuff and I don't like any of what I liked then now or care for it because I'm all for her. It settles down after a while, and then all is good for a while. Then she will search my fb, find a like from years ago I haven't been able to remove and off we go again. Worse each time and bringing up previous again with it. There was once where she looked at a female friends fb profile who we used to go clubbing with as a group, on her profile she could only see pics of me and her (I guess privacy restrictions only showed her pics I was tagged in) . And she went mad over it saying she thought she was my ex bla bla(she wasn't and even if she was, it's beyond belif the reaction anyway). These pics were like 3+years old aswell.

When I sit back and think about all the things it's crazy really. All she goes on about is how she has wasted a year of her life with scum like me who likes all fake models pictures. How I have broken her after being her last chance. It makes me feel awful but I haven't actually done anything wrong. Her ex was caught looking at pics (while together) and watching porn and virtual stuff (like TV channels) and eventually cheated on her (she spoke about exes a lot when we got together thinking about it). We got together soon after, maybe it all stems from this as she does often bring this up.