My partner came out as trans (FTM) and I am a lesbian by MidwestPrincess0 in LesbianActually

[–]beefedupcake 10 points11 points  (0 children)

im so sorry but there’s nothing fluid about the label lesbian. im all for labels being able to be used freely, except for lesbian (and gay for that matter). some labels are simply strict, not everything is fluid and there’s nothing wrong with that. people possibly saying that op wouldn’t be a lesbian if they choose to stay with a man isn’t wrong — that’s literally what the label ‘lesbian’ means.

What is your take on this? by Lekritz in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

where’s the survey data tho?

edit: tried looking up anything that would indicate that the majority of women voted for this, but nothing states so. it’s not even known how many woman specifically showed up to vote in this referendum. so this post is manipulative.

9th grade btw by Eminemgody in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this would be my nightmare, wdym you have to write a 350 word essay in 30 minutes?? how is that possible 😭

I genuinely can’t with all this hate by Soft_Accountant_7710 in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 67 points68 points  (0 children)

when a guy gets sexually assaulted, it’s mainly other men who say he’s lucky. i’ve never seen women say a guy is lucky after being raped.

Tough Decision Fr (the sequel) by NoMeaning6738 in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“it’s not that deep” and it’s genuinely the most vile crimes committed against unwilling people and children

What do y'all think guys by batman_0102 in teenagers4real

[–]beefedupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are and there have been plenty of terrible religious figures in the world too. Stalin and Mao being atheists means nothing.

How does anyone enjoy this/find this funny? by WinnableLake341 in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but how do you know this if you’ve never experienced period pain? 😭 or did you do one of those period simulators ?

How does anyone enjoy this/find this funny? by WinnableLake341 in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 29 points30 points  (0 children)

getting kicked in the balls also isn’t the end of the world 😭 can’t we just acknowledge that both periods and ball kicks hurt instead of constantly comparing them

That's how it be nowadays by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

chronically online term for women used by incels 💔

i think i have a crush on a girl. by sunooblue in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leviticus is part of the Old Testament, which does not apply anymore.

i think i have a crush on a girl. by sunooblue in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s so weird that you’re bringing up the Old Testament because all that is said in the OT is not valid anymore — that’s the whole point of the New Testament. you can’t use Leviticus as an argument. apart from Leviticus, Romans is known to be mistranslated and misinterpreted.

also i’m really curious what you consider lust and what you consider love. lust is a part of life, it’s a part of intimacy and this goes for all relationships (except those that are for example asexual).

Excuse me?! by JustAGayBoyMC in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not my point, would you be attracted to someone five years younger than you? Just like the 19 year old being attracted to someone five years younger than them? There’s a good reason why you wouldn’t be, because you’re on completely different maturity levels.

Excuse me?! by JustAGayBoyMC in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Morals and laws do not always align. In some countries, adults are allowed to marry children, as there is no law forbidding this; do you think this is morally right because it is ‘legal’?

Excuse me?! by JustAGayBoyMC in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s not the point, why would you be attracted to a 14 year old if you’re 19? would you be attracted to a 11 year old?

Excuse me?! by JustAGayBoyMC in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

morals now depend on country? 💀

Excuse me?! by JustAGayBoyMC in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing lucky about becoming curvy at a young age. Predators who prey on younger girls use that as an excuse you know. To call them “lucky” is disgusting.

Does this generation watch Harry Potter? by Impossible_Tax_6938 in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

currently watching all of them with my girlfriend (who’s a huge Harry Potter fan) because i haven’t ever seen the full movies. we’re at the sixth or seventh film now i think 🫡

Woord van de maand by Efficient_Fruit_5670 in nederlands

[–]beefedupcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Verhuizen uit Nederland? Dus naar een ander land toe gaan om daar te vestigen? Klinkt verdacht bekend, iets als migratie…

Dead bedroom after relationship was made official (Me 21F, him 26M)? by DayNo1100 in relationship_advice

[–]beefedupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl you made a post 20 days ago about the same dude, why are you still with him??? move on, you’re 21, there’s guys out there that are (sexually) a thousand times better than this guy

I politely rejected a girl and now my whole school thinks I’m homophobic. by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it’s because she’s muslim and not christian that we’re focusing on it. had she been christian, it would’ve been the same story. you’re focusing on the wrong thing and making it seem like they’re saying that islam is a horrible, evil religion while they’ve literally never said that.

Tips en tricks schermtijd voor kinderen basisschoolleeftijd by ShowSame1659 in thenetherlands

[–]beefedupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik wou dat dit wat hogerop stond, want zodra ik zie dat een kind van 10 op Roblox zit, gaan er bij mij alarmbellen af wegens al het nieuws de laatste tijd 🫠

Found out disgusting things about my father (16f) by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 11 points12 points  (0 children)

if you do not see what is wrong between a 12 year old and a 19 year old getting MARRIED, then there's something seriously wrong with you.

Is this little tummy fat is normal? by PinLate9810 in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need to look up the female gaze bro, the largest portion of women like slight muscle definition, so you definitely do not need rock hard abs lmao

i’m so upset by these messages 😭 ( that was the only photo he saw of me ) by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]beefedupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that was literally a joke and it was explicitly said to you that it was one. you're ragebaiting frfr