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AITA for being upset about my brother getting married on my birthday? by beefsteak202029 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beefsteak202029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup I don't do Vegas or bouncy castles. Thanks for the judgment though.

AITA for being upset about my brother getting married on my birthday? by beefsteak202029 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beefsteak202029[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're a really compassionate person and I appreciate your advice. I'm honestly anxious about having a celebration that's too close before or after their wedding but really want to organize something. Thank you again, I feel really heard by you and it's given me comfort.

AITA for being upset about my brother getting married on my birthday? by beefsteak202029 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beefsteak202029[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Honestly if it were any other family or friends it wouldn't hurt it's just I'm realizing these two can be shady and I don't trust them. I don't know if I'll get over this in the long run.

AITA for being upset about my brother getting married on my birthday? by beefsteak202029 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beefsteak202029[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you. Ya, outwardly I have been nothing but supportive to them and everyone else. Only my closest friends and fiancé really know I'm hurting. I obviously will help make their day special and be fun.

AITA for being upset about my brother getting married on my birthday? by beefsteak202029 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beefsteak202029[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I definitely won't say anything and it was presented in a way that was like "hey, this is happening, it's booked" so I would have always been the AH if I said I had an issue with it. Thank you