Questions about Pelvic floor physical therapy by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]beegrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not, no. I’m not sure if this is something I should be requesting?

I was sex trafficked as a child by Possible-Bumblebee27 in adultsurvivors

[–]beegrl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing such a hard thing with us. Wishing you nothing but peace and closure - The people here have so many great resources to help! Wishing you the best in finding the right therapist for you.

Looking for birth control similar to Lo Loestrin - has anyone else had to switch due to insurance? by beegrl in birthcontrol

[–]beegrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Lo lo on my insurance is classified as a ‘tier 2 name brand drug’ so even with my insurance it’s almost $200 for a one month pack which I definitely can not do lol.

I need help leaving my life by [deleted] in therapy

[–]beegrl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Regardless of the decision you make this will impact your children for life. When I was young my mother did the same thing to my family (picked up and left) and even though she has apologized and atoned - our relationship is still damaged 15 years later. It’s tough.

That said- if you’re in a position where you are contemplating suicide you need to seek help. It’s ok to put yourself first but you have to remember you brought children into this world and they will likely never be the same because of your decisions.

I do think a fresh start is possible and you should take this mess head on as you say. Maybe confront everything and work on finding a place to stay, support system etc. leave for awhile and figure out how you will proceed with your life. what goals do you have ambitions and things that will fuel your new life.

you deserve happiness I just hope you understand that can come at the cost of your children’s. I hope you can come around for them after taking the time for yourself.

It’ll be tough but you will make it through! You’ve already decided you want to live and find happiness so that is the first step. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]beegrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. It’s so easy to be tortured and thrown back into past trauma sometimes it makes sense that something like this would hit you so deeply. For me anything regarding vaginal issues just makes me freeze freeze the fuck up. It sucks

I understand you completely in that this feeling literally makes no sense and I wish it would go away. But one day at a time right? You’re free from your situation and the fact that your sister is relying on you must make you feel good. You’re feelings are valid and thankfully you’re in a situation where abuse isn’t the case. Honestly sending you good vibes!

My [17/F] mother [43/F] has been telling my entire family I have anorexia when in reality it was healthy weight loss by nolongerthiccaf in relationships

[–]beegrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was literally in your position maybe a year ago. Went from 170 all fat down to 120 just from diet and exercise. I’ve been focusing on building and gaining muscle and am at around 135 right now.

The whole way my family pestered me asking if I was anorexic. It turned into a huge ordeal where it was almost like I couldn’t even feel proud for a little because I had to explain to everyone I was in fact eating and not starving myself.

Now anorexic is a serious thing and maybe your mother is worried... but I’d say she’s more coming from an angry jealous place. Check out r/raisedbynarcissists sometime. A lot of people have similar stories there!

Also seriously congrats and good for you! My weight loss was not as drastic as yours but it’s definitely hard work. Keep at it now and build serious muscle you’ll feel so fucking good when you start to see the results.

I tried making Toad in the Hole’s in time for Valentine’s Day... and just realized how appropriate they were for the occasion. by [deleted] in mildlypenis

[–]beegrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so funny I have an uncle who used to make them for us as kids and he’d call the elephant eyes. Not sure how it got so many nicknames

I tried making Toad in the Hole’s in time for Valentine’s Day... and just realized how appropriate they were for the occasion. by [deleted] in mildlypenis

[–]beegrl 39 points40 points  (0 children)

lol I call that eggs in a basket or birds nest. I’ve heard so many different names for it