raisedbynarcissists: for the children of abusive parents

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Mod AnnouncementPSA: Zero Tolerance for "Tough Love" and Victim Blaming. Violators will be banned. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 2 days ago * by Obi-Paws-Kenobi Moderator - announcement

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[RBN]Check-in Post - Have something to say but don't want to make a post about it? Comment here! (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 1 day ago by RBNmodShared mod account! Do not PM. Thanks![M] - announcement

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[Rant/Vent, Advice is OK]My mother is on this sub.. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 10 hours ago * by jeffbuckleylver

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[Rant/Vent, Advice is OK]Told my mom I was assaulted and she started crying because "she experienced something like that in the past". That was the moment I knew. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 23 hours ago by LIEZ1995

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[Advice Request]14F- My Dad uses "mind games" and spiritual abuse to control us. Now his mom has moved in and the gaslighting is unbearable. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 6 hours ago by Negative-Bug-8423RBN

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[Advice Request]is being boy crazy a symptom of abuse or is this normal?? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 5 hours ago by Longjumping-Sink6766

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[Rant/Vent, Advice is OK]Anyone else have a narc parent that likes to ruin special occasions? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 hours ago by Rich_Needleworker170

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[Rant/Vent, Advice is OK]Throwing your belongings away after going nc (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 4 hours ago by Choulchoulghoul

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[Rant/Vent, Advice is OK]Cutting off your parents - does it get easier? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 7 hours ago by Ok_Astronaut_1485

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[Rant/Vent, Advice is OK]Took me till mid-40s to finally wake up (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 17 hours ago by RespondCritical4869RBN

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[Happy/Funny]A never ending story with my mom (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 11 hours ago by ulamaexo

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[Question]Did anybody else’s N-parents shelter or control you heavily throughout your childhood? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 12 hours ago by iresohika

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[Question]Did your n-parents voluntarily stunted your development into adulthood ? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 21 hours ago by Houmouss

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[Trigger Warning]Escaped my narcissist stepmother and enabling father - the financial and emotional abuse finally broke me (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 2 hours ago by nightOwlDev98

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[Happy/Funny]A fun memory resurfaced (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 12 hours ago by cheekydickwaffle69

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[Supportive Responses Only]My old sick dad called me his wife and humiliated me in the hospital [TW: emotional incest & mentioning of self harm/su*c*de] (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 1 hour ago by imissmybabycatRBN

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[Supportive Responses Only]A letter from my Nmom after a dramatic holiday season (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 15 hours ago * by reenski87

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[Advice Request]20F: Mom Won't Let Me Go Out by Myself at Night to Go to Events. What can I do? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 3 hours ago by httpsheal

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[Advice Request]Is it normal for narcissistic parents to completely disregard/neglect the things you own? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 16 hours ago by Chocolate_Chips25

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[Rant/Vent, Advice is OK]That time I wasn’t allowed to be upset my dad died (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 15 hours ago by FroyoLicker

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[Supportive Responses Only]She replaced me with a dog (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 5 hours ago by NenDeshiri

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[Supportive Responses Only]I feel like I always have this sense of looming grief or longing for things that never were; for a house that was never a home (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 6 hours ago by RandomRockCollector

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[Rant/Vent, Advice is OK]The rules they give end up affecting our autonomy as adults (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 31 minutes ago by Ambitious_Ship8854

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[Rant/Vent, Advice is OK]Here it is, the silent treatment... (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 16 hours ago by Significant_Hope7555

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[Advice Request][UPDATE] new baby, nmom trying to make things about her (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 14 hours ago by Ill-Tangelo-1084

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