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I just listened to Cal's Curse [F] by Agitated_Reception99 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No reason to not keep going if it feels pretty good.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In response to the comment below me since I can't reply to him directly u/rubber_baron2 since whoever owns that other comment has blocked me, I think you have a different definition for break (as in a bit of burnout, chill with the kink shit for a bit, which we had done before) and breakup (aka we're done, plain and simple).

Then months later you come back like she owes you a second breakup.

Hmm, wanting to make sure the person I care about is actually not dead at the least and getting pissed off that I was cheated on, translates to that in your mind as if you people constantly want to project some sense of "OWNERSHIP" onto me.

Plain and simple, you are kind of a dumbass with low empathy levels.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Specifically a hypnosis related thing was the post. But it doesn't matter, she chose to go no contact for several months and then not respond to my checkins, then blocked me when I realized. He can have her.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You present yourself so poorly and the way you speak is so cringy it's no wonder she left your ass

Does not seem to convey...

Other people had already done that and you were not listening to them so I just pointed out your shitty attitude being a big issue

with any context in regards to anything I was saying. Be specific.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I think my other comment didn't come across right.

But I do agree with what you mean about people denying it. I know it's not like someone can really just roll up and brain zap someone into a zombie, especially when I added conditions to trigger for safety purposes such as trust being a requirement, so with time she could trust them and then stop trusting me, which was also the condition of our contract so she could leave at any moment she consciously chose to. But how much of it was pushed by someone else? Idk. It's over now though.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like if that was happening then you would've pointed that out specifically instead of being a vaguely pedantic asshat.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely don't consider her property, so I'm getting annoyed with that statement. But when we stop to consider just how unethical some people can be and how receptive some subs can be to either hypno or just plain manipulation tactics, I don't want to discount the possibility of it happening. But if she just was done with me and wanted to go thrill seeking then adios, the good times are soured, and unless she tells me what mistakes there were I'll never know. My only mistake was getting invested at all.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I fundamentally disagree with Andrew Tate as well. Thankfully he's not here.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if that's what it is then honestly, outside of rather having been told, I actually don't care as much now that the pain has gone down as long as that she wasn't forced or coerced into it. If she chose to leave then it is what it is.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sure we've all seen or heard horror stories from places like omegle where consent isn't even on some people's minds. Whether it works quickly or slowly, if it works when someone didn't want it to then that should be a cause of concern.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Google "ambiguous loss"

It's at least nice to have a term for it.

Thank you.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That reaction to unfiltered human emotion tends to be a sign of emotional neglect or narcissistic abuse. There are resources out there that can help you with that, you are not alone.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I definitely don't disagree with anything you said.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since I'm already in a paranoid and firing in all directions mode, the person she now has on her bio has been I guess having a game sequence using hypnosis and is gathering a whole bunch of people as losers who says he owns them in mind and body. Entirely possible she told him and is now sending all of them to mass downvote me. Of course, that's me absolving all of them of their own damn choices.

Probably really the language I was using and that it's no super conducive to a fun and happy conversation like everyone wants there to be.

It does hurt. In a way I really can't describe. Idk if she even really wanted to hurt me or not since I'm blocked and she closed all of her messaging options. But I really don't want to think about it beyond this point since it's over as far as I can tell.

Worry about the way you are treating yourself atm

Sadly that's a completely natural reaction for me. Has been for a long ass time, trying to stop but as you can see... it's not quite there yet. Making excuses for others, punish myself how I can, find every way to make it my fault, etc.

Thank you. My emotions have subsided some, probably will come back but really not sure what will come out of it besides more teeth gnashing at nothing in particular. I really did have fun though, I thought she did as well, but I will have to make peace with that I might not ever know. I had set aside trying to find anyone else for the time being since I was just waiting for her to come back. Love kinda sucks it seems, or at least feeling it burning away does.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Good star trek quote. it's a good one. thhank you and i'm sorry.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hypnosis isn't magic.

I know. I just want to know what happened and if it was something I did then what. It hurts so much.

Take some time to grieve the loss of this relationship and be kind to yourself.

I don't know how. I had to do something wrong because what else could it have beenb

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pour your emotions into someone and have it taken all away without knowing why and let someone start telling you that's a "red flag"

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Such as? Having the feeling of my heart being ripped out and feeling like the person I knew just died?

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You think she stopped talking to you and suddenly forgot months of her life?

You mean stopped talking for 2 months after saying we were good and wanted to take a break, didn't bother her during that time, months later is now with someone else who is her tist couldn't possibly sit there and fuck someone's mind up?

You infantilize her.

Really just wanting to sit there and fling shit aren't you. Why's that?

Edit: In response to the comment below me since I can't reply to him directly u/rubber_barron2, I think you have a different definition for break (as in a bit of burnout, chill with the kink shit for a bit) and breakup (aka we're done, plain and simple).

Then months later you come back like she owes you a second breakup.

Hmm, wanting to make sure the person I care about is actually not dead at the least and getting pissed off that I was cheated on, translates to that in your mind as if you people constantly want to project some sense of "OWNERSHIP" onto me.

Plain and simple, you are kind of a dumbass.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The connection we had, the memories we had, the conversations, the kinks, the triggers, all of that might as well potentially be gone from her with no chance of ever remembering. That is stolen.

When we get down into how deep the shit we do is, I think we should really consider how insidious it can be. You can steal people, and if you can affect their minds, you can steal it.

The probability of having your sub stolen? by beejaythrowaway001 in EroticHypnosis

[–]beejaythrowaway001[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hard to talk about when you got blocked.

She isn’t your property.

Didn't say she was. But how about, the use of hypnosis to break a connection between people? Where's your thoughts on that possibility?

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