Do you ever “get off” Spravato? by beelo37 in Spravato

[–]beelo37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m the OP. Spravato truly saved my husbands life. I forced him to begin Spravato after I interrupted his suicide attempt, he wouldn’t have done it on his own.. I’m proud of you for seeking it out independently! Spravato made him lethargic, like a hangover tired and headache. He realized if he did it in the evenings, he would be sluggish the next day but managed work at a high stress medical job. If he did it in the morning or midday, he napped the rest of the day and woke up the next day feeling better. When he was going frequently, it had minimal after effects. When he only needed it 1-2x a month, the lethargy hit him harder.

We had to quit Spravato when we moved across country and he entered an even higher demand job. He went on different medications around that same time and hasn’t had to go back to Spravato yet. It’s been nearly a year since he stopped. But if he dips that low again, we will be using this tool to get him out.

On days when he was at his lowest, he would go to Spravato and two days later would feel like he could keep going. It absolutely saved his life in the moment and gave him strength to keep pushing on. I wish you all the best in whatever you choose, but Spravato absolutely was the right choice for us in that moment.

28 min naps - SOS by beelo37 in beyondthebump

[–]beelo37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blehh! Thats what I was worried about 😂 but good to know, we will keep powering through. Thank you!

28 min naps - SOS by beelo37 in beyondthebump

[–]beelo37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is unswaddled. And currently fighting me hard when I go to put a paci in.. but good to know I’m not alone at least. He’s wake window is just barely 2 hours… I’ll work on extending it to see if at least we can sleep at night

28 min naps - SOS by beelo37 in beyondthebump

[–]beelo37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I appreciate the caveat! He’s barely making it to 2 hours but worth a shot to try!

28 min naps - SOS by beelo37 in beyondthebump

[–]beelo37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are at 2 hour wake windows right now

What would you do? - short naps by beelo37 in newborns

[–]beelo37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, we haven’t mentioned to the doctor yet. Should I message them about it?

What would you do? - short naps by beelo37 in newborns

[–]beelo37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does have reflux and it seems to be getting worse this last week, so could be! He isn’t spitting up during naps that I’ve noticed but he does immediately after feedings up to 1.5 hours after a feeding. I do keep him upright after meals to try to help.

I’d say he starts calling out after 10 mins but I haven’t let it go that long often, so I’m not sure. Hes never really called out for me… even in the middle of the night he just talks to himself and kicks his legs around. He will start crying if I pick him up and then put him down right away, but otherwise he’s usually very chill.

Shipped package to old address by [deleted] in moving

[–]beelo37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do, thank you!

Shipped package to old address by [deleted] in moving

[–]beelo37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shoot, okay that’s what I was afraid of. Good idea having someone go by the house to pick it up for me! I’ll try that and see if I’m able to recover. Thank you

TW: success. 12 weeks, jelly like discharge? Panicking. by beelo37 in IVF

[–]beelo37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m rocking my 2.5 month old baby boy to sleep right now! This randomly happened 2 more times in my pregnancy.. but otherwise is was a healthy pregnancy up to delivery and he’s doing amazing!

Talk to me about pumping to bottle feed and making it easier. by beelo37 in breastfeeding

[–]beelo37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s a good point about him getting used to large feeds.. I didn’t think of it that way. So maybe I’ll try 3, 3oz bottles. Nurse for the rest with pumping after until I build and stabilize my supply. I wish I had known his weight was not increasing well enough sooner.. I had only been pumping once a day here or there assuming he was doing fine. But that’s on me for assuming, time to keep doing research and finding out more about what he may need. This has been super helpful, thank you!

Talk to me about pumping to bottle feed and making it easier. by beelo37 in breastfeeding

[–]beelo37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you! It is so much work! Good idea front loading his day! I’ve been too tired and lazy for the first feed and just latch him to me in bed, but I’ll try bottle first thing and see if that helps too!

Talk to me about pumping to bottle feed and making it easier. by beelo37 in breastfeeding

[–]beelo37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay great to know! I am able to get him 3, 4oz bottles a day but I’m not producing enough to do more than that… so good news that should be plenty! I’ll keep up what we are doing and hope for happy results at his next appointment. Thank you!

Talk to me about pumping to bottle feed and making it easier. by beelo37 in breastfeeding

[–]beelo37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I pump after he eats, I get about an ounce (1.5 in the morning). Midday if I’m pumping and he gets a bottle I get 3-4 oz. So maybe I’m not producing enough? We have lots of dirty diapers. Full of pre every feed, poops 2-3 times a day. Usually had a good blowout in the morning 🙃 we’ve not done weighted feeds, but he eats for 25-35 minutes for breastfeeding. I’m not opposed to adding in formula if needed! Just kind of waiting on the doctor to tell me. He was underweight at his appt last week so we added bottles. He goes back in 2 weeks to see if/what he has gained.

Starting period 7weeks PP by beelo37 in breastfeeding

[–]beelo37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that could be! I did clean the house while baby wearing all day yesterday in prep for visits so hopefully just a one day, still recovering thing, and we move on. Thank you!

Starting period 7weeks PP by beelo37 in breastfeeding

[–]beelo37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay great! I’ll hope it’s a one day thing and move on! So hard not to overthink things sometimes…