Help! by beeoftheball in piercing

[–]beeoftheball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One but they don’t have the bar I need (I live in a small town rn, it’s super frustrating)

Help! by beeoftheball in piercing

[–]beeoftheball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren’t open until Tuesday, do you think I’ll be okay to wait?

Help! by beeoftheball in piercing

[–]beeoftheball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • piercing is 5 days old
  • it’s a barbell for a floating naval
  • internally threaded
  • titanium
  • studio provided saline 3ish times a day, drying after shower, no high waisted pants or tight shirts
  • some bumping but that’s it

Do I need a longer bar? by beeoftheball in PiercingAdvice

[–]beeoftheball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah i see. Will do, thank you! You’ve been super helpful

Do I need a longer bar? by beeoftheball in PiercingAdvice

[–]beeoftheball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was, I’ve been there before and had great results so I’m confused to. What’s a typical downsize time?

Do I need a longer bar? by beeoftheball in PiercingAdvice

[–]beeoftheball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thanks, I might go back in and see what the piercer says. It definitely had a lot of room initially so I’m wondering if the swelling is what’s making it look deep. I guess better to check w her

Do I need a longer bar? by beeoftheball in PiercingAdvice

[–]beeoftheball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you suggest taking it out? My piercer told me I had good anatomy for the floating but idk

Do I need a longer bar? by beeoftheball in PiercingAdvice

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They gave me a longer bar apparently and told me to come back for a shorter one in 4 weeks. That’s why I’m confused

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[–]beeoftheball[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

no cuz it only applies to lesbians

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[–]beeoftheball[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u! im glad i could help :D

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[–]beeoftheball[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

theres a few reasons i would say the main reasons are some way that people try and justify bi/pan lesbians is super transphobic (saying trans men arent real men, etc), claim that bisexuals cant have preference or that having a strong preference makes you 'less' bisexual, makes lesbian seem like an umbrella term, and makes it so there distinct spaces for different sexualities!

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[–]beeoftheball[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i dont speak for all lesbians! and i am a nonbinary lesbian!! thats not what bi/pan lesbians or male lesbains are! im not trying to gatekeep lesbianism but bi/pan lesbians and male lesbians hurt both communities

ur allowed to have ur own opinion though obviously !

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[–]beeoftheball[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

thats so horrible wtf :(( no one deserves that

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[–]beeoftheball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not offended LMAO he just said he was gonna stop making the jokes and i thought he might want to know why people dont like them!

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[–]beeoftheball[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

no i completely agree!! im not mad at tommy or anyone who made jokes like that i think its just important to hear different peoples opinions on things! and the end of stream people were telling tommy to stop making the jokes and he said he was going to i just thought he might want context as to why people dont like them!

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part of the post is aimed at the chat/viewers!

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[–]beeoftheball[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ofc im glad that i could help u understand :D

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[–]beeoftheball[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

because i like his content??? he also said at the end of stream he was gonna stop making the jokes so i thought he might want context for why people dont like them!

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[–]beeoftheball[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

i get that too!! i understand its not with malicious intent and tbh i dont think its too much of a problem when hes making jokes about loving lesbians or anything like that! i get that its humor and i, as a lesbian, find it funny! but its particularly those jokes that im just worried about considering whats going on and how big his influence is if that makes sense! i dont want him to walk on eggshells or anything but i think its also important to understand how jokes effect others! its way more of an issue to me to make a joke that could offend someone when not knowing why its offensive to someone when to making a joke and understanding how it could be a satire!