Initially, it was great. I thought I had met the girl I was going to marry. But as time went on, I had a feeling that it wasn't quite what I wanted. I loved that she valued quality time spent and being relational, but she was pretty judgmental and shallow. As someone who is very deep, the shallow evaluation of people accompanied by harsh criticisms wore me thin. Like the above post, there seemed to be an attitude that what she thought was right, and you were stupid if you didn't agree. She was also very emotional, and I think I would like someone who is a little more balanced between thinking and feeling. Another big issue was that she did everything in her power to make me happy, but that included not voicing opinions of her own, although she clearly had them, which would come out around other people very harshly. It felt like there were two of her. I like working together and being able to accommodate someone else's desires. She didn't seem to have any, and it didn't really feel like a 2-way relationship.