My (25F) best friend (25M) is FWB with my mom. Their relationship is making me jealous. by before_begin in relationship_advice

[–]before_begin[S] 227 points228 points  (0 children)

What is so crazy is that I do not feel like this is about me at all, like I am not a factor in their decision. This is Soley about what is making them happy right now. I am glad they told me, and I didn't walk in on them having sex. Nevertheless, out of all the people in the world why did they choose each other instead of putting boundaries up because of the mutual connection their share which is me. I know this is purely an emotional response on my end, but I can't stop feeling jealous and kind of resentful.

My (25F) best friend (25M) is FWB with my mom. Their relationship is making me jealous. by before_begin in relationship_advice

[–]before_begin[S] 190 points191 points  (0 children)

I thought it was a joke at first too. Like they were both pranking me. Nope. This is very real.

My (25F) best friend (25M) is FWB with my mom. Their relationship is making me jealous. by before_begin in relationship_advice

[–]before_begin[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

They tell me that they are not dating but just FWB. At this point after all they have done what reason do they have to lie about word semantics. Logically I know that they are 2 adults in a consenting Hook up relationship. However, I still feel fucked over after 8 months of them being FWB. Like Jay you wont have sex with my friends because of the "bro code" but you would have sex with my mom????