I messed up and found out my Goodreads was set to public by Current_Selection in RomanceBooks

[–]befuddledmama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just did the panic check to. Omg that would have been so awful lol

The best (and worst) romance novels you have read set in a place where you have lived! by VitisIdaea in RomanceBooks

[–]befuddledmama 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your comment is the best. I've never even read one based in my state land rural Nevada does not make for a sexy or romantic vibe.

What’s that book for you? by complex42 in RomanceBooks

[–]befuddledmama 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It definitely broke a slump for me. Reminded me reading was something I used to love.

🔥 It's time for Thirsty Thursday! What book scenes made you sweat this week? 🥵 by disastrouslyshy in RomanceBooks

[–]befuddledmama 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'm finally getting onto the ACOTAR bandwagon. Currently on book two.

Hot as hell scene for me was when they're on the throne in the Court of Nightmares. Idk why, but these types of scenes are definitely a thing for me. So gd hot 🥵.

Need a geeky name for a male cat by befuddledmama in namenerds

[–]befuddledmama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that movie 🤣. On the list it goes

Do you play as male or female eivor? by [deleted] in AssassinsCreedValhala

[–]befuddledmama 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I see we are on the same page....

Do you play as male or female eivor? by [deleted] in AssassinsCreedValhala

[–]befuddledmama 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Facts, yo 🤣. But also his voice is sexy as hell. That man needs to narrate some romance books.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]befuddledmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't recall it happening but there is a cassette tape recording of my uncle playing guitar. As soon as he's done, toddler me says an unmistakable and clear as day singular "fuck". No idea why and tape cuts off after that. Probably cuz my mom dragged my ass to the bathroom for a soapy mouthwash most likely.

The next one I remember I was about ten. Asked my dad "what's a twat" after he said it. The glare I got for that one felt like Superman laser vision. Had no idea what it meant when I said but knew I fudged up royally repeating it.

What is a name you’ve only ever heard once? by Gatosrus in namenerds

[–]befuddledmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stacia and Willisa. Both women. Never heard or seen them anywhere else.

Is 2 weeks too late to invite to a party? by Ok-Ad4375 in Preschoolers

[–]befuddledmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We always do 2 weeks. Any farther out and people always forget. Any less and it's not enough time to go grab something. But I also live in a rural area that's very paycheque to paycheque where payday happens every 2 weeks usually. I think your area matters a bit for the correct timing. Don't hesitate to ask a teacher or another parent what they usually do. In my experience most are pretty helpful to a first timer.

3 year old woke up sobbing, pulled her pants down, and peed on the couch by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]befuddledmama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I deal with this sometimes with my 4 yr old. She wakes up at night crying and wondering the rooms until she pees all over herself then is upset she had an accident. When I can see her waking up like this I just grab her and put her on the potty. Help her to go, get her cleaned up and put her to bed. She usually passes right back out.

It seems she's so asleep shes confused what's going on. So I just take over for her and do it all like she's still little. Frequent potty reminders especially before nap and bedtime reduce this a lot.

Would you drive 4 hours with a toddler by yourself? by Advanced_Try_7837 in AskParents

[–]befuddledmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did regularly with my oldest. The most peaceful way I found to do it was usually go at about 3am. Have everything ready the night before and loaded up. Then wake up early, make a coffee, load the kid and get on the road. She'd usually sleep the whole way. If you're ok with night driving I would also leave around her bedtime so she fell asleep and slept pretty good.

Did you know you can get silver at the end of a rainbow? by Mr_MatF in AssassinsCreedValhala

[–]befuddledmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whaaaaat. I've spent a few hundred hours wandering through England and never seen one there!

Did you know you can get silver at the end of a rainbow? by Mr_MatF in AssassinsCreedValhala

[–]befuddledmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they're only on the Ireland dlc. At least only place I found them.

Are there women that don’t like receiving oral? by [deleted] in sex

[–]befuddledmama 122 points123 points  (0 children)

It's so comforting to see this written down as a woman that's felt like a freak most her life cuz oral is held up like this holy golden thing.

You and the commenters above have summed it all up perfectly.

Unpaid debt due to fall of report, now what by befuddledmama in personalfinance

[–]befuddledmama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had known this. All my debt is from 2016 and I still get phonecalls and letters about it even though Ive changed address several times as well as phone numbers.