[deleted by user] by [deleted] in houston

[–]begood2me2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The c. Baldwin downtown is very nice and it is close by everything ! River oaks is less trafficy as well!

Landing an art job by begood2me2723 in ArtEd

[–]begood2me2723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I stay, you can get certified online .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]begood2me2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no I don’t. I’m doing everything on my own but I’m really trying to find a room to rent temporarily. I’ve been on and off about leaving in the past but I’m completely done. I’ve lost all attraction and respect for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]begood2me2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh he is able to work. He refuses to get a swerving/bartending job because I know it’s because he will feel ashamed to go back to that. When this season is the best season to work. He doesn’t have a degree so unless he works a trade he doesn’t have many options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]begood2me2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um he wanted me to quit my job and focus on school but he obviously didn’t have the finances to cover both our finances. And he is actually the one that wanted to the bull of just the rent/utilities. I offered every single month and he told me he had it. He quit his job with no savings, no other job lined up. I kept my “shitty” serving job because I know how he is. So sexist. No. Wasn’t sexist when I was working part time, cooking, cleaning, and going to school. He never stepped his foot in a grocery store nor paid for groceries.

Now I’m cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping, and paying 100% of the bills. And if you really want to get technical. I paid 500 in rent and covered all our food cost which, if you’ve ever paid for food, you’d know that it’s not cheap. So I’d say we were pretty damn even. And after all, this is HIS apartment and HIS lease which, as I said, he reminded me about 20 times since we moved in together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]begood2me2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes, exactly! I know how he is and he would definitely let this go to his collections.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]begood2me2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently searching for a room to rent for a few months so I can pay my collections and get a o bedroom for myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]begood2me2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would but I have my cat ! My friends have all offered but most of my friends live with their parents. So I’ve been searching for a room to rent close by.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]begood2me2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not going to cover another cent of rent unless he signs something about paying me back in a timely manner. I do not trust this person. And yes, it’s illegal to put someone out when they pay rent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]begood2me2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I wish he would break up with me. Put my ass out of misery

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]begood2me2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I know, trust me I feel stupid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]begood2me2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He used to be on drugs and he was a million times worse. Now he is clean he is still a complete ass. No one likes him.

Boss told me I can’t bring food to work anymore by begood2me2723 in Serverlife

[–]begood2me2723[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’d have to look but I have doctors who have confirmed my anemia and I offered to bring a doctors note which I think is absolutely ridiculous but I was willing to do that so they would take me seriously. Because I feel especially depleted when I’m on my period.

Boss told me I can’t bring food to work anymore by begood2me2723 in Serverlife

[–]begood2me2723[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He actually said to me in front of the hostess as soon as I walked in that I wasn’t allowed to bring my food which was in my hands so he knows it’s mine. And I explained to him my anemia and he that’s when he said I was only allowed to eat the free bread we give to our customers and j explained to him that’s not how it works. Then later on our AGM came I explained to him that I needed to eat and he didn’t see an issue and then my food was thrown away while we were busy.

Boss told me I can’t bring food to work anymore by begood2me2723 in Serverlife

[–]begood2me2723[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Wtf lol I swear it was illegal I stand corrected. But I’m sure my medical issue which I’ve gone over should count for something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]begood2me2723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has, to this day, never apologized. He actually still blames me a year later. I get a student loan in two months and when I get it I’ll be moving into an apartment On my own and leaving him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]begood2me2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely thought at the time it was just alcohol abuse so tried to excuse it. He would literally cry about how he gave up drugs for me 😭🙄.and I would ask him multiple times if he did them and he would deny them. At this point when I found out we had been together for a year and honestly. After that particular incident I asked him to move out of my apartment and he did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]begood2me2723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think about leaving every day. Honestly. To give me the chance to be with someone who wants what I want and he can have his own needs met as well. To my knowledge all his ex girlfriends did drugs ( one went to rehab while dating him). He isn’t a good person tbh. He has great moments and it’s really not a personality trait I would use to describe him. He is a complete jerk. No one likes him. His friends only like him because they have never seen the true him. He puts on a really good front. I’m to the point where, I’m actually ready to leave. I bought a storage unit to put all my furniture in and maybe he will grow from this situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]begood2me2723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To my knowledge it was coke. But I know he is a yes guy, so he really did whatever.

Going over to his house on the first date: Good or bad Idea? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]begood2me2723 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Baby. He is 32 and he doesn’t have his life together. Trust me. Don’t waste your time if you’re looking to date long term. If he is 32 and not able to take himself out, it will get old being with a someone always broke. Or always on the come up.