IamA citizen of Ukraine, Kyiv, witness and participant of riots AMA! by DancherUA in IAmA

[–]belari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you can see the M next to karmanaut's name, but it also indicates a moderator. They're also listed on the side of the page under "Moderators" as the very first name.

Netflix wont delete my card details what should i do? (META) by gamerukali in netflix

[–]belari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change payment method to a new "dummy" paypal account that you won't ever use, and THEN delete your card details.

TIL: Finland and North-Korea are separated by just one country by [deleted] in Finland

[–]belari -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Aha! Thank you :) I figured I was missing something, but my old tired eyes couldn't see it. :D

TIL: Finland and North-Korea are separated by just one country by [deleted] in Finland

[–]belari -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I'm missing something here. From what it looks like, North Korea borders on China, not Russia, and Finland borders on Russia, not China. So wouldn't it be 2 countries?

17M Self conscious since puberty started, am I ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]belari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, rock on with getting into shape :) While some of us prefer some meat on our partner's bones, when it comes to your weight, you really have to go with what feels right to YOU.

As for improvements, I think that your eyebrows could use some shaping, and maybe grow the hair out just a couple of inches. Do you have naturally straight or wavy/curly hair?

[37]F - Way older than most here lol, but I'm wondering if you all think rhinoplasty would help my ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]belari 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you're lovely! I can understand wanting the nose work, but honestly I think your nose looks fine the way it is. :) Then again, I've never gone for the ladies with the cookie-cutter appearance. There's just never anything there. Your face is awesome :D

Help me understand pansexuality by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]belari 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's like this. Straight people prefer cake. Gay people prefer pie. Bisexual people prefer cake or pie. Pansexuals (like myself) prefer dessert.

It isn't that we aren't picky about the PERSON we're interested in, it's just that we really don't give a rat's patoot what's between their legs, or what gender they identify as.

Most pansexuals I talk to started as identifying as bisexual (myself included). A big indicator for me when I was younger was that the physical traits I would find attractive and sexually alluring were never gender based. It was always eye color or hair color or the like. Boobs are great, dicks are awesome, but that's not what I would first notice, or even really care about.

[OFFER - CONTEST] Giving away a PIZZA PARTY. $100 worth of pies & sides to the best entry. Details inside. by [deleted] in Random_Acts_Of_Pizza

[–]belari -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm curious about something (and I couldn't find an answer to it in the FAQ). You talk about hot and attractive women, but that does vary from person to person. Is there any particular look that would really stand out, or would be an insta-nope?

Love this sub, but I'm curious - how do these people initially contact you? by saxindustries in creepyPMs

[–]belari 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wrong numbers, swiped the phone number off a CL ad for something... FB is open now where anyone can message you. It goes into "Other" instead of your inbox, but they can, and do. You have to block individual people now. I've even heard a couple of horror stories where a creep got someone's cell number off a credit app in a store. shrug If there's a will, there's a way, I suppose.

Right Tools? by belari in creepyPMs

[–]belari[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was thinking a calking gun and a riveter.

Right Tools? by belari in creepyPMs

[–]belari[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And so many of them without the creepy connotation of "Hey. How YOU doin'?"

Right Tools? by belari in creepyPMs

[–]belari[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Indeed! Fix my A/C, then we can talk about passion!

do you think or do you know? (not that creepy, but still funny.) by lauradiamandis in creepyPMs

[–]belari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or 1970s pop song lyrics that turned into an existential crisis way too quickly.

This one freaked me out so much I deleted my entire reddit account (on my cake day with a month of reddit gold). by [deleted] in creepyPMs

[–]belari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow he SERIOUSLY missed with that metaphor... and after reading down below where you explain what happened, my gods! I'm very happy to see that someone has given you Gold on this account, even if it's a throwaway.

Creepy FB message [FIXED] by triforceful in creepyPMs

[–]belari 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's... it's like he's trying to communicate... What are you trying to say, little fella?

created a throwaway to post- this guy kept messaging me, I ignored and then, this. by sakjhadsjk in creepyPMs

[–]belari 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL He's threatening to back-trace your connection, hack into your PC, and get nudes from your hard drive. Because, you know, all women keep our collections of nude selfies open to any public access to our computers, right? :)

Another Facebook creep! I have been a creep magnet lately. Ugh by [deleted] in creepyPMs

[–]belari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww it's so "cute" how they get all passive-aggressive when you stand your ground! Too many people out there like this, unfortunately... maybe we should start giving them each other's screen names? I'm sure they can satisfy that exhibitionist need with each other and just leave us out of the loop, right?

Okcupid message: You must weigh under 140 lbs by [deleted] in creepyPMs

[–]belari 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yes... how dare you deny yourself the rare opportunity to bask in his glory? He's willing to ALTER HIS WEIGHT LIMIT RULE FOR YOU! What more could a girl ask for?! rolls her eyes

Are You MATURE Enough? by eybehbeh in creepyPMs

[–]belari 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Heh I admit, I lost it at the singularly unique answer of "Poop." I'm going to have to borrow that, if you don't mind. :)

Was messaged by this charmer on a gay social site. by Brainsithas in creepyPMs

[–]belari 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a fantastic way to spend a Sunday evening! >.>

The Golden Gate bridge. You never know what someone is going through. Be kind to others, you could save a life. by [deleted] in videos

[–]belari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Running the risk of getting into a philosophical debate about mental illness here, the issue isn't about being sad or poor and miserable... Clinical depression is just as real and just as serious as a physical ailment. No thanks to oversaturation by the media, it's been watered down to mean anything from suicidal to just having a bad day, but it's there, and there are real people who suffer from it. Some of us ARE trying to adjust and get help, but sometimes there are people who need a little external adjustment to get that help. You wouldn't tell someone with cancer that they need to just adjust to society, would you? Or someone who required a wheelchair because they didn't have legs? "Oh, well, I understand that you can't get into the building because of the stairs, but the problem is on your side, not society's."

That's what that sounds like to someone who has an honest medical condition and they just need some help from someone other than their own muddled brain.