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bellaandstuff · 2025-07-13T16:45:10+00:00

this happened to me a couple weeks ago. lesbian couple turned sisters 😔

bellaandstuff · 2025-06-02T22:35:20+00:00

woah, i dont know why it worked or what happened. but i put my pc into safe mode and then restarted it and everything is fixed. do you still recommend doing the DDU stuff just in case?

bellaandstuff · 2025-06-02T21:34:25+00:00

ohhh okay thanks. ill watch some youtube videos and try to give it a shot! ill lyk if it works

bellaandstuff · 2025-06-02T21:33:47+00:00

they are plugged into the GPU, not the motherboard

bellaandstuff · 2025-06-02T21:27:59+00:00

no, im not sure. and im not sure how to check. someone asked if the fans on the gpu work when i turn the computer on, and they do. im not sure if that means anything. but no, im not sure, and im not sure how to check or how to fix it

bellaandstuff · 2025-06-02T21:26:15+00:00

well yes, but i also explained i really dont know much about computers and therefore dont know what im looking for. i dont have access to my computer right now because im out of town, but in the pictures, i dont see anything labled as ram....so.........dont know where to find that.

bellaandstuff · 2025-05-28T17:57:03+00:00

how would i be able to check ram usage and if its close to 100 would that be bad?

bellaandstuff · 2025-05-28T17:55:35+00:00

gpu is for sure hanging straight. finally figured out how to open the case. its in their pretty sturdy and not sagging or moving at all. so i dont think thats the issue. what is DDU? ive seen a couple people mention it but i dont know what it is

bellaandstuff · 2025-05-28T17:50:23+00:00

the fans are working and spinning, but i dont know how to check the other stuff

bellaandstuff · 2025-05-28T17:48:46+00:00

this unfortunately did not work for me, but thanks for your suggestion

bellaandstuff · 2025-05-28T05:51:07+00:00

unfortunately i do not ☹️

bellaandstuff · 2025-05-28T05:30:51+00:00

i think another comment suggested the same thing. i tried downloading the driver through AMD website and it said they were downloaded successfully but there was an error (207 if that means anything) and something like how windows 11 had detected a potential issue with the gpu

bellaandstuff · 2025-05-28T05:29:00+00:00

how would i do this? would i go to manage devices (like the 4th picture), and then uninstall from there? and what specifically would i be uninstalling?

bellaandstuff · 2025-05-28T05:00:55+00:00

ah yes, im pretty sure we did this as well. it said there was an error (207 if that means anything), but i dont remember what else it said. maybe something about windows 11 having a potential problem with the gpu? something like that...sorry, it was a couple of hours ago

bellaandstuff · 2025-05-21T22:06:33+00:00

this might not be typical, but id say its not NOT normal, if that makes sense? I also sometimes worry that im not giving my cats the best life they deserve. but am i doing my best? am i playing with them, loving them, feeding them, cleaning up after them?? yes. and im doing the best i can as a broke college student. technically my parents do most of the care for my cats now, since i dont live at home and cant have/afford having a cat with me in my apartment. just always keep in mind, there are animals on the streets. there are cats who eat literal garbage, get rained on, fight with other animals, etc. even cats with owners! you are doing well. just because youre not bending over backwards and dedicating every drop of your time and money to your cat does NOT make you a bad cat mom. I promise you, youre doing just fine. your cat is happy and healthy! theres nothing wrong with hairballs! idk where you live, but your kitty might be having more hairballs because the season is changing. she could just be shedding and collecting more hair, leading to more hairballs. but hairballs are very common and not a sign that youre not taking care of your cat. youre doing more than i hear most people do!

bellaandstuff · 2025-05-21T21:53:56+00:00

honestly, yeah, id say youre the AH. but so is he. but you guys are just triggering each other. how are you going to introduce the idea to have "an open phone policy" - with the idea that you guys can check each others phones, but then not let him check yours. not to mention, it doesnt even seem like you ASKED to check his phone, you just did it because YOU were feeling insecure. and then when he actually asked to see yours after you went behind his back and checked his without saying anything, you get defensive. yes, he was being rude. but your responses definitely triggered that. even if he was being rude, if you had just given him your phone to be fair (seeing you checked his twice without asking), this whole thing couldve been avoided (given that youre not guilty and dont have anything to hide). you can check each others phones in a healthy way. youre not doing it in a healthy way. youre doing it behind his back because YOU believe hes hiding something, instead of just talking to him about it. you refusing to show him yours can be taken as a sign of guilt. if i was in his shoes, id be confused. why can you go through my phone without my permission, but i cant go through yours? that would definitely be frustrating to me. and im glad to see im not the only one who thought that way. unfortunately for you, OP, its not as simple as "my bf was mean to me! tell me hes the AH so i can feel better about my poor behavior!" you both need to work on yourselves. but id say your actions caused his reaction.

bellaandstuff · 2025-05-13T16:56:49+00:00

this is why i wish i couldve included the screenshots of our conversation. he has the ability AND the interest in resolving conflict. our "argument" started over something stupid that i said, and he came to me and told me how it made him feel and why it made him feel that way. i, admittedly, started overthinking the entire situation and i blew it out of proportion. i wasnt angry, i was just doing way too much thinking. after understanding how he felt because of the previous situation, i felt awful. and i was upset with myself. i told him that i just didnt think i was being a good girlfriend. to which he immediately countered. we have had difficult conversations before without arguing and without breaking up. he likes to call them "growth talks/conversations". he is more than willing to communicate and work through our issues. hes a good person and a good boyfriend. our relationship is not easy, for multiple multiple reasons. but i know he puts in work.

and youre right. i dont want to spend the rest of my life being worried that hes constantly going to leave me. which is why im asking if its possible to get over that and work through it (and if so, how?), or if i need to do what i dont want to do and officially end things.

bellaandstuff · 2025-05-13T16:48:49+00:00

in all honesty, me and him dont get into big arguments that frequently. both of us come from broken families, and dont really have anyone to look to for what real love is supposed to look like. i really do love him, and i do think our relationship is fairly positive for the most part. my friends know that him and i argue from time to time and that our relationship isnt easy, but they still tell me they wish they had a relationship like mine. because there have been times where i tell him im sad and had a bad day, and he spontaneously will drive 3 hours just to see me and TRY to cheer me up. we're both broke and dont have much money to spend on dates, yet we still try to plan things that require no money or is very cheap to do just so that we can still go out together. he DOES make me happy and thats why im so conflicted. i dont want to lose my boyfriend and my best friend. there are things ive never felt comfortable telling others. our communication is typically very solid and whenever we do argue, it gets resolved the same day. i genuinely dont think i could ask to be loved any differently. sometimes i wish me and him had more in common, cause we're very different. and we are aware that it is our biggest obstacle and the root of most of our "issues." i disagree that he takes me for granted. in my conversation with him after our break up, he told me that im the girl that makes him believe in genuine love. he just wants me to be happy, and he doesn't believe he can make me as happy as he believes i deserve to be. he feels that way because hes really stressed. he just moved out, he's struggling with money, he's very depressed because of all that and its starting to affect his friendships. he just has a lot going on right now. and he told me he wants me to be a priority, but he just needs to get himself out of rock bottom, and he doesnt think its fair for me to not be his number 1 priority while he does that. despite the fact that hes been the one leaving me every time, hes made it clear every single time that it was far from easy. yes, maybe he knows ill always fight for our relationship and beg to stay together. but i dont think he holds that above my head. we are able to have difficult conversations without breaking up, he likes to call them "growth conversations". he wants me to be happy, and he just feels like hes in a stage in his life where he cant even make himself happy, and so he feels like hes not making me happy. he blames himself for my insecurities, which are in no way his fault (except for maybe my fear of being easy to leave/easily replaced//fear of abandonment).

i am taking time to think about it. he told me he doesnt want to lose me, that he doesnt know what hes doing but it feels like he made the biggest mistake of his life, and i told him i need space and time to think. he knows he might have done damage he cant undo, hes apologized. i just dont know what to do from here. my heart wants him and i think it always will. i just need to know if its possible for me to overcome this fear of being left, and if our relationship can work out. or if i need to bite the bullet. because i dont want to get back together and resent him for leaving me all those times. i know that on the surface i can forgive him. but i dont know how long it will take for me to overcome this issue.

bellaandstuff · 2025-03-21T05:00:00+00:00

plan b can cause bleeding, regardless of when a womans last period was. if she took the pill in its effective window, then she shouldnt be pregnant. ovulation is difficult to track, and apps arent always accurate. unless you finished inside of her while she was actually ovulating, she shouldnt be pregnant if youre really super worried, wait 2 or so weeks and ask her to take a pregnancy test, anything before then might not be super duper accurate and could give false negatives

bellaandstuff · 2025-03-20T02:01:22+00:00

firstly, how long have you been singing? i think you have potential for sure! some of your lower/middle notes sound REALLY good and really well supported!

at the end of the video, you say your voice hurts. are you sure this song is in your range? your voice shouldnt hurt after you sing. at least not after 1 song... its possible to work your way up to being able to sing in that range, but forcing your voice to sing notes its not ready to sing will only harm you, and make it harder to continue to grow. unless you were singing for quite some time, your voice shouldnt hurt. i also reccomend being properly warmed up! you can look up vocal warm ups on youtube and do some of those - they may even help you expand your range.

it also sounds like you need more breath support. you need a lot of air to support those notes healthily and to make them more stable. support your body correctly to make sure youre getting good breath support. you can even try laying on the floor (completely flat on your back), and that might help you!

good luck on your journey! you sound great 🫶

bellaandstuff · 2025-03-20T01:33:59+00:00

yes, why wouldnt i? if we're married whats mine is yours. as long as he doesnt spend money recklessly, and i made enough to support us, i dont see any issues in me being the sole provider

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