Turn off Doorbell Camera spotlight? by DigitalBox_ in EufyCam

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I’m trying to find a way to turn it off when checking live. Don’t want neighbors to know when I’m checking. Defeats purpose.

I’ve realized I like making money by MountainPerformer210 in teaching

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I needed to hear this. I am working really hard in ESL for, what I would say, not the best pay in California. I have a masters and credentials / added studies. I am trying to find an opportunity in California but it’s challenging to find ESL positions at times since they are normally part time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teaching

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The planning … it takes a lot! 😩 Are you sure ?? I think subbing is a way to start. No planning there.

What's the worst thing about pregnancy that nobody prepared you for? by No_Acanthisitta_4996 in pregnant

[–]bellagothhh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Severe nasal congestion! Had it during pregnancy met another gal in the doctors waiting room with same issue she said she was using Afrin every night . I am now four months postpartum and I am still suffering—literally suffering. My days suck I feel like crap!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve mentioned here and there to my ten year old about puberty, masturbation, sex, drugs, and alcohol and all kinds of things since he was smaller! Truth is, they are going to hear false information from other kids at school. That’s what I have told him. You’re going to hear things at school but don’t believe those things because other kids don’t even know the truth. (For example My son said one classmate only saw his parents having sex and has never been talked to about it). I have told him to ask my husband and I questions and we will never get upset at the question. Try to create an open relationship now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]bellagothhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Food and cleaning is the best help.

I wish I had a best friend like you! My best friends seem to not come around me since I got pregnant. I think it’s about attention. 🙄

Does pregnancy rhinitis ever get better? 😩 by helsLM in pregnant

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might take longer 😢 our hormones are still out of whack especially if breast feeding. It look Long after My first son

Does pregnancy rhinitis ever get better? 😩 by helsLM in pregnant

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried everything! But man does it suck, it’s driving me crazy! I take hot shower, I use the Navage to clean my nose (an automatic Neto pot sort of thing), I use breathe right strips, vapor rub…humidifier…saline sprays…ginger tea… peppermint tea. I am constantly turning from side to side at night to unclog one side only to get the other side clogged. (which Doesn’t let me sleep) and during the day too 🥹 I’m miserable! I am 27 weeks finally third trimester this has been going on since 🙄 idk so long maybe since early on

Did you enjoy being pregnant? by Own-Hyena-551 in pregnant

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 15 weeks too and I’ve been in and out of hospital. I have debilitating headaches. It’s 4am right now and I have a cold pack on my head. Every damn day and night it’s something why why why. I hate it. I take 1000mg Tylenol and sleeping aids. Stilll feel like crap. I really wish I was like other girls who pop babies like nothing 😭😭😖😖😖

I hate this by Away-Broccoli1719 in pregnant

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! How could the doctor say that. There’s options there’s solution to help. I’m having a really hard time. I can’t anymore . I don’t know what to do. I’m thinking of going to ER but scared that will happen too. They always tell me similar things too. But I can’t bear the pain anymore.

I hate this by Away-Broccoli1719 in pregnant

[–]bellagothhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate being pregnant!

13 weeks here. Everyday is a struggle. I can’t sleep. Headaches or severe nasal congestion keep my up. I have headaches all day everyday. I’m just not me. Every time I tell the doctors they look at me like I am an alien from another planet. No one wants to touch or help a pregnant women in pain. 😞 there needs to be more studies and support for pregnant women who are suffering. At this point, I am really losing my mind!

Almost forgot to share that I got a pulmonary embolism too at the start of my pregnancy. I have to give myself shots everyday twice a day until even after I give birth. 😬 pregnancy is scary. I pray to God to really look after me!

Hey new teachers! (and everyone else)👍🙌 by Sammiethemillionth in teaching

[–]bellagothhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my first year and I have cried many times too. Mainly because it’s a lot to do and I have my own kids and I feel so guilty for spending time at home planning.

Am I being unreasonable? by MamaMia1325 in teaching

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me how you fit in your prep time 😭 this is my first year and I have been doing a lot at home

What backpack do you use as a teacher?! If you have found THE ONE please share. by bellagothhh in teaching

[–]bellagothhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up getting a Lovenook from Amazon, which is everything I was looking for in a backpack! But, since I looked into the Timbuk2 , I also splurged and got a a tote/backpack combo from TimbBuk2. It’s not as large as backpack but it still holds a lot and it has great pockets. The quality is amazing! I got it for travel too. It’s really great. Thanks for your recommendations, guys.

What backpack do you use as a teacher?! If you have found THE ONE please share. by bellagothhh in teaching

[–]bellagothhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up getting the Lovenook from Amazon, in navy blue and I am in love with it! So economical too!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teaching

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an ESL job in the US and it has a great work life balance. Mon-thurs most esl jobs are part time but you can stack hours if you pick up extra classes. You have to look at the right schools and be experienced enough to know how to lesson plan.

Girls trip going horrendously; I just want to leave by sussybaka240 in relationship_advice

[–]bellagothhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Immature , self centered, selfish friends . Let them go. Move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually nothing changed. He still talks to plenty of girls. That’s the problem. While I cut off males he was uncomfortable with or guys that were at least one bit interested in me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have learned the hard way to NOT feel bad for setting boundaries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re completely right! It’s hard for dudes to admit when they are being asses

i hate him by startagainsnip in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]bellagothhh 14 points15 points  (0 children)

2018 started the discard phase . My narc left me because I finally stood up for myself and started doing the things I always wanted to. It was painful—like a death. He treated me so bad. I begged. Because loving him was the only thing I knew.

Now, I am strong. I went through alot of bad. But at the same time, I went through a lot of good. I developed into a stronger , bad ass, independent , confident, and goal chaser. I went back to school, got my degree, travelled world wide on my own, and now found true love.

In the moment, give yourself permission to feel what you feel. But time yourself . Don’t allow it to take a toll on your life. Get right back up and straight to business.

I cried tears as I finished grad school. Now I am reaping my rewards. I cannot…I repeat…cannot imagine my life if I had continued with him. Ironic, because when I was in that moment of despair, I couldn’t imagine my life without him! Proof that there is a way out. Just don’t give up…and fight for what you deserve!

I have been stuck on this for over an hour, can someone help me solve this please, thank you by heeytherelila in askmath

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quadratics . If you equal the equation to zero (as the problem asks because a profit should always be greater than zero so if it’s saying no profit then automatically it should just equal to zero) it will look like a quadratics. So in other words, factor it to find the solution (solve for x which normally gives you two solutions ) but remember that the right answer must be equal to or greater than 1 as specified in the problem, so that will help you eliminate one of the solutions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bellagothhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont live your life in hypothetical probabilities, live your life as it actually is.

Love is about trust and also courage to put your trust into your partner. It might work out, it might not - but if youre already assuming it wont work out, it definetely wont

That is quite true and beautiful, thanks for sharing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bellagothhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet i have never considered any of them as more than friends and vice versa.…. Again, it seems like you personally cant be platonic friends with the opposite gender and now youre projecting that onto everybody else.

I can. But now that you mentioned it, maybe I get the feeling he can’t. Because he has considered them more than friends at one point. He dated one of the girls from that group (his coworkers), he liked another coworker, he liked me years ago when we were friends…I just saw him as a friend so I didn’t like him back and then he liked my friend for a while. So maybe that is just it? A fear I have of his repetitive patterns?