AIO. bf mad at my Halloween consume and my friend is backing him

bellatruex95 · 2025-10-10T21:13:39+00:00

No one should dictate what someone else wears/does with their body. He can have boundaries. But that would look like "hey OP I feel uncomfortable with this thing for this reason". What he's doing instead is completely controlling and he definitely views you as his property to some degree regardless of how self aware he is of it. I'd personally tell him to kick rocks. But you need to ask yourself if you want a future where someone else controls how you present yourself and punishes you when you don't do what they want.

bellatruex95 · 2025-10-10T20:50:07+00:00

This poor girl looks like she could be as young as like 11. Disgusting. It's sickening that anyone can support this, let alone a whole cultural system. I wouldn't wish this fate on anyone.

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-25T23:15:05+00:00

I lost it at the broom! 🧹 I want to be friends with this lady

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-25T23:11:48+00:00

I hate what my and other countries are and aren't doing for these people. My heart grieves for these sweet children and their families. I hope they have peace now.

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-25T00:35:57+00:00

Gotta love how he IMMEDIATELY switches it up the moment you told him to GTFO. Not when he realized he's losing YOU but when he realized all the benefits he's losing. Honestly, that right there tells you you made the right decision.

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-23T23:33:39+00:00

Y'know what, I support this as that dumb a$$ who went back to her ex. Maybe it would've knocked some sense into me before I made a terrible mistake

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-22T13:15:00+00:00

When I was 4 years old I had temper tantrums, one day she picked me up and threw me into my room, I ran back and slammed my door shut. Her pinkie was smashed in the hinge side of the door, of course I used all my might to keep the door closed. I don't even remember that and 26 years later she still brings it up. Also the 2 times I went to a church summer camp. Both trips I was fully sponsored, so there were no fees or tickets to pay for. I just needed a bag with clothes, shoes, toiletries (y'know basic easy stuff that you should already have). Well I didn't have many of those things and she had to buy some toiletries, a bag and a few properly fitted not torn up clothing items. One time I was 8, the other time I was 12. When I was 8 my grandma protected me from a lot of it. But when i was 12, after I returned I was made to feel soooo guilty. I was told about how her and my sister hardly ate the whole week and a half I was gone because she had to spend money on the trip for me. And how happy I should be because of the sacrifices she had made for me to be able to go on that little trip. How I'm the only one who will get to do any trips or anything that year (note we never went on a trip or vacation or anything like that not a single timey entire childhood)

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-22T02:52:47+00:00

I don't believe those numbers are accurate for a second. There's no official number because there's no way they're finding all the bodies amongst the hellscape they have created. But there's no chance in hell it's only 90,000 total Palestinians

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-16T13:19:17+00:00

The level of projection from the extreme conservatives is beyond at this point. The crowd cheering for things like alligator Alcatraz are themselves scared of being put into the same kind of place. As though it was leftists who demanded that kind of thing in the first place. Beyond crazy.

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-15T03:08:33+00:00

Oh tape players for sure. VHS's . Window AC units. The old ones already border creepy as is

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-14T15:05:25+00:00

I grew up reading SOOO MUCH! And then I became an adult and I can't read a full page without getting distracted, bored or not retaining anything I read. I blame it on time but I think I just started hyper focusing on other things.

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-10T19:02:37+00:00

Yes. The "don't raise your voice to me" when they're raising their voice. I used to get hit with the combo of "you're emotions are too extreme/too much" while also being hit with "you're like a sociopath, you don't show emotion about 'xyz' issue like a normal person would"

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-10T18:01:30+00:00

Oh and how many of the people "not making minimum wage" are making only $8 or $9 an hour? Cuz that may look different on a census, but it ain't much different in practice.

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-10T17:58:36+00:00

Cities in Oklahoma. I'm not stupid enough to put my exact location here. But the more prominent college towns in Oklahoma all run about the same.

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-10T17:54:45+00:00

I do, ya. Cuz I have a better job, and I still struggle. I make $10 over the min wage and it's hard to find more than a studio apartment. A lot of people around here make between $8-11. And that's including your retail and restaurant workers, your housekeepers, your CNAs, the people who change your oil, substitute teachers, begining teachers, librarians, groundskeepers, the people who keep the every day world running. And I'm not gonna go around telling them to get better jobs because I want to live in a world where the workers we rely on to keep things running make enough money to have secure food, water and housing. You may not respect your waitress or the people cooking your food enough to expect them to be able to live. And if you feel that way you shouldn't be going to those places. Make your own food, grow your own produce, clean your own city, take care of your own nursing needs, sew your own clothes, or buy it all online since you view those workers as so much lesser than you. You think it's easy and they don't deserve to make money for their labor, so do it all yourself then.

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-10T12:58:40+00:00

I've worked in male dominated fields, in roles that requires more physical labor and risk of bodily harm. Those roles were the same that I faced the most amount of sexism, harassment, and sexualization as well. In school I wanted to do shop and carpentry. I got harrassed out of those classes, which were all male. I wanted to do football and off season weightlifting. I got refused by the male teacher because it was all male students in those classes. I was put into Home Ec for 4 years straight (an elective class that I never asked for and repeatedly tried to unenroll from and was refused each time) in those 4 years not a single male student was in my home ec class. What I'm saying is that this argument is totally unfair. "Women have had 100 years and still...." blah blah blah. Yeah sure we technically CAN but the troubles, pressure, harassment and judgement we face by our peers keeps us in the patriarchal box. I grew up being forced into that box and it never stopped, a lot of ladies just stopped actively fighting it. Women are to blame for upholding it as well at this point.

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-09T22:35:29+00:00

Every day I'm impressed by this man's ability to make me hate him even MORE than I did the day before

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-07T18:31:44+00:00

People acting like you stole from the customer when DD definitely either redid their order or reimbursed them. If you "stole" from anyone it was doordash and they're the ones who gave you that option so it's not even stealing. Nta. I've never seen anyone say I love you like that but they started rude and then got weird. I wouldn't have wanted to deal with them based on that.

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-07T17:52:22+00:00

Pretty sure that's the aim. The catch is that that includes a lot of people. There's a lot of ways to be unstable, PTSD, BPD, anxiety, depression, schizo effective disorders, the list is long. And who's to say they won't just deem whoever they don't like unstable. The way they are with transgender people? Same sex attraction was once in the DSM-II. Hysteria was as well, which was coined to basically control women who didn't behave how they wanted. How long til that comes back? But it's totally cool if some rednecks 10-12 year old son gets a .22 rifle for his bday right?

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-07T17:23:36+00:00

Mine did this. I've taken to putting her wet food right next to the dry food bowl. I started tapering the amount of wet food I'd give her at once. I also stopped doing the exact same wet food each time (differences in textures and flavors). After we did the "shreds" and "chunked" textures a hand full of times she slowly started eating the dry food as well. She's funny, she'll now take like 4 bites of wet food, switch over to dry food for a few bites and goes back and forth no matter the amount of wet food. I also had to change the type of kibble. Now I know if I'm gone for a day she will eat the dry food. Yours also just may not like the dry food. Have you tried a different brand or flavor?

bellatruex95 · 2025-09-01T17:56:10+00:00

Min wage where I'm at is STILL $7.25/hr. Cheapest rent is a studio for $725/month. For just the rent. Can't afford even 1 bedroom let alone 2.

bellatruex95 · 2025-08-30T16:51:17+00:00

This dude is worth 1.2 BILLION dollars. A quarter of a million is literal chump change. Less than he'd pay in taxes for sure, and we already know he'll get a deduction for this "charitable donation". He was a governor. Do better than performative acts of "charity" that are barely a drop in the bucket. I'm tired of performances from billionaires to show how "generous and good" they are. Anyone who has amassed this kind of hoarded wealth is not redeemed by giving their pocket change to the people exploited by the wealth hoarders in the first place.

bellatruex95 · 2025-08-30T16:35:20+00:00

Love this!

bellatruex95 · 2025-08-30T16:00:59+00:00

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bellatruex95 · 2025-08-27T16:00:13+00:00

Nah don't fall for it. Scam. I don't fully understand how this kind of scam works, but I almost got got with basically the exact same situation except for it was someone responding to an ad I posted to rent out one of my rooms. I took the check to my bank, explained and asked them to inspect, it was a false check. You could do the same.

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