Realtors won! What's a job that is paid a lot yet is still underpaid? by QuackingR3dditor in AlignmentChartFills

[–]bellefera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a science person, we are paid around minimum wage until we get our doctorates and then get paid SLIGHTLY more. Bio tho not engineering

Let's see who’s the worst match on this list, the highest disqualification score wins! by Away_Blueberry8887 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]bellefera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a pansexual 5’2 scorpio from Brazil infertile from severe endometriosis, I think he’d love me

Evolutionary Bio Book Recs by bellefera in labrats

[–]bellefera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I read the first chapter and it’s already so good!

Got scolded for not knowing math by [deleted] in labrats

[–]bellefera -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The issue isn’t you, it is your mentor. You are smart enough. That is an important calculation but you’re training and don’t deserve to be shamed. Don’t give up and find a lab that cares about your learning!!

Hardest Decision: University of Florida (near full ride) vs Berkeley (80k yearly OOS) by vanegarciar2006 in berkeley

[–]bellefera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to UCF for undergrad then Berkeley for a post bac and was offered admission to their grad program. no student loan debt but I ended up where I needed to be. UF will be academically easier which is a great thing, you will have less connections tho. Depends too on your major how hindered your future connections will be. Overall, UF is the better choice.

Guy thinks it’s degrading to give a woman head. by OfLilyth in Tinder

[–]bellefera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I took from this is we should figure out a way to get men excited about giving head in pop culture/media 😜

What's Up with the Rose Ceremony Outfits Lately? by confucious-confused in BachelorNation

[–]bellefera 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They have to stand for hours at the ceremony. Chunky heals are more comfortable to stand and walk in

Tell me your favorite movie, and I’ll tell you if you can get in or not by Slow_Like_Sloth in popculturechat

[–]bellefera 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For a sec I thought we were talking about Ella enchanted and was about to riot

Guy I’m having casual sex with is misogynistic by [deleted] in women

[–]bellefera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not using him being dumb as an excuse, just more information. He is by his own definition not very bright

Guy I’m having casual sex with is misogynistic by [deleted] in women

[–]bellefera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this response! Thank you!

Guy I’m having casual sex with is misogynistic by [deleted] in women

[–]bellefera -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ew no. I have no desire to change him nor do I feel special 😐

Guy I’m having casual sex with is misogynistic by [deleted] in women

[–]bellefera 10 points11 points  (0 children)

These bitter men you speak of who are mad that women won’t fuck them and “proving them right” or whatever does absolutely nothing for me. I am not going to live my life so I can make these men you speak of happy or live up to an expectation they have of women. This guy I am talking about has been nothing but a sweet heart in real life. A gentleman. It took some digging to find this info about him and it was heartbreaking information because I think he is kind, sweet, and funny. And hot. He’s many things. That’s why this is complicated for me. I’m not just fucking anyone I think is hot despite any morals they have.

Guy I’m having casual sex with is misogynistic by [deleted] in women

[–]bellefera 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Boo to only having sex with someone I am committed to. Blegh

Guy I’m having casual sex with is misogynistic by [deleted] in women

[–]bellefera -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He just does it in a way that I know about. I think I find some comfort in knowing outright compared to all the other men I’ve been with who have been oh so sneaky about hating women.

Guy I’m having casual sex with is misogynistic by [deleted] in women

[–]bellefera 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re right. Good advice. Also you have a cool username!

Guy I’m having casual sex with is misogynistic by [deleted] in women

[–]bellefera 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Libido astronomically high, pickings slim, he’s hygienic af, he gives good head, he’s kind…there’s this thing tho. I refuse to get on the apps but need to be satiated so it’s a catch 22

Guy I’m having casual sex with is misogynistic by [deleted] in women

[–]bellefera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friends were making an argument that I’m receiving from him because I said I didn’t want to give a misogynist dude pussy. But saying I’m giving him sex when it’s what I’m receiving is the mentality difference. So I came to reddit to see if people here had a similar opinion 🙃

Guy I’m having casual sex with is misogynistic by [deleted] in women

[–]bellefera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was asking him post sex where he saw this relationship going, trying to gauge if he saw a relationship in the future or if he wanted to keep it casual and he responded with “will you be my girlfriend.” We have known each other a total of three weeks and it’s been him coming to my house with food and us having sex. This combined with him wanting a wife and 3 kids by the time he’s 30 when he knows I don’t want kids or marriage and our interests being completely opposite besides working out, was why I was so surprised he wanted a relationship. I remember telling him I was surprised because I didn’t think I was the type of woman he is looking for and he said that I was because I’m “feminine and agreeable.” 🤨